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New job and absolutely hate it

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Jemblue101 · 17/09/2025 16:54

Hello, I've just started a new job two weeks ago and I absolutely hate it. It is fully remote so I'm feeling bored and lonely. It was a pay rise which I desperately needed as was struggling but the training is rushed and without structure.

I thought fully remote would be challenging but my new colleagues don't even message to say good morning and we haven't had a single conversation that wasn't a meeting about work.

I'm starting to deeply regret leaving my old, comfortable job, but I was stagnating and there was no progression at all, plus not earning enough to enjoy life, but I didn't hate every day in my old role :(

OP posts:
skippy67 · 17/09/2025 17:20

Do you message your colleagues to say good morning?

Sprig1 · 17/09/2025 17:45

As above. You need to be proactive. Maybe they are just busy and immersed in what they are doing. Can you ask your line manager for more time with them/more training?

Mangetoutmangetouti · 16/10/2025 19:27

What is your new job? I’m desperate for fully remote!
i hope things are better since you wrote this x

cocoloco12 · 16/10/2025 19:40

I pretty much wrote a post like this last year. I think there are 2 factors in this situation - how you are as a person and the company culture.

I can't speak for all companies but in my experience of wfh /hybrid I hated it. The "hybrid" part really meant most people never showed up to the office at all. Honestly it was awful... Resulted in crap/non existent training, couldn't get hold of the people you needed etc. Yes we had the odd conversation but the relationships were so different to that of an office environment. I think the main issue was they were already set up that way when I started having changed to hybrid after covid so most teams knew each other etc. Lots who joined the same time as me or after have left.

I am now back in the office (in an old job I regretted leaving) 5 days a week and couldn't be happier. One thing I know is it if went wfh or hybrid it would be very different.

Maybe you just need a different wfh role?

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