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Think im about to be 'managed out' after complaint

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hoopladelicious · 30/08/2025 22:09

My manager is using my performance review to punish me for something not related. Ive always had great reviews.

How do i stand up for myself?

Wbat else can i expect when this kind of stuff starts?

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beelegal · 30/08/2025 23:09

You may have always received good reviews, but if you have acted inappropriately or breached your organisation’s policies, that is a problem. Your post is quite vague, so it’s difficult to give specific advice.

If you’ve failed to meet expectations or there have been complaints, then you need to acknowledge this and put forward ideas on how you would improve and resolve the issues. Own up to mistakes rather than cover up, any normal person will appreciate that.

If it’s simply a performance matter, then it may be best to move on and find another role that is more suited to your skills.

However, if you’ve followed all procedures correctly and have consistently performed well, then it’s clear something is out of alignment - in which case, it may be that the organisation isn’t worth working for.

From my experience of dealing with employment issues, the best outcome in the end is the most stress free option where you can maintain good references- find another job, don’t wait to get pushed out. No need for a review if you leave.

hoopladelicious · 31/08/2025 07:37

Thanks for that. My title is unclear. I made the complaint about workload multiple times over many months and i finally took a couple of days off with stress.

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ArtichokesBloom · 31/08/2025 07:57

Are there others with the same workload and will they share your complaint? E.g. all act together

beelegal · 31/08/2025 09:05

A manager can and should bring up your complaint about workload in a review discussion if the framing is genuinely about support, problem-solving, and how to help you succeed.

If you don’t think they are addressing it in good faith (perception can matter here so you ought to have an open discussion) then instead of getting documented out find another job.

PeonyPanda · 31/08/2025 09:13

If you’re finding the job so stressful that you’re signed off, isn’t the best thing to do to look for a different job? Chances of the job changing are pretty slim, so you need to think about what’s best for your long term health and happiness?

Perfectjobdreaming · 31/08/2025 09:26

I quit my job due to stress and politics; things are not going to change; it is better for your mental health to leave in your own terms; however if you have the resilient to fight back and think you can get a settlement perhaps contact UCAS, an employment lawyer or an union.

Best of luck

SleepingBetsy · 31/08/2025 11:16

If a complaint has been made then it's your manager's duty to the business to address it with you.

Is this manager the same manager who has previously given you good reviews? How do you get on with them?

Unless there are financial pressures it doesn't make sense to get rid of good people for no reason. Are there are personality clashes and toxic behaviour behind it?

beelegal · 31/08/2025 11:21

I would say in the current environment businesses can easily replace their workers or they can choose not to replace, the latter being very common.

Fighting them is a lose lose situation. Get out with head held high.

KayP04 · 29/12/2025 02:46

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errBeavis · 02/01/2026 02:34

Check company policy for an anti retaliation policy
if you said you were stressed they have to carry out a risk assessment. Ask them why this hasn’t been done https://www.hse.gov.uk/stress/risk-assessment.htm

Work-related stress and how to manage it - HSE

Employers have a legal duty to protect employees from stress at work by doing a risk assessment and acting on it.

https://www.hse.gov.uk/stress/risk-assessment.htm

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