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Colleague dismissed due to cancer

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user9102991 · 27/08/2025 20:35

My colleague was dismissed earlier this month due to a long term illness (cancer). She has been off for just over a year and is going through chemotherapy.
I've never worked anywhere before where someone has been dismissed due to ill health, does this happen in most work places?

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Burntout01 · 28/08/2025 11:56

FlowOverFlow · 27/08/2025 23:15

How selfish of you, their life has been severely impacted, just as yours has, but they are ill.

Its not selfish at all, its simply stating facts. This person has time off for pretty much anything and everything (‘upset tummy’ ‘migraines’ ‘vertigo’ ‘anxiety’ bereavement’ ) to name a small number. Where an average person might have a few days off this persons default is to go off for months. I myself live with a chronic, possibly life limiting health condition and occasionally have no choice but to be off sick for a week or two, but take a view that if it gets to a point where I’m perpetually absent I will do the decent thing and either resign or request (and hope I get) medical retirement).
its not selfish to not want to have to always work over my own designated workload to make someone else’s life easier!! They certainly don’t care about me!!

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 28/08/2025 12:07

SouthWamses · 28/08/2025 08:27

Never caused you an issue may be, but what about the students? You should be able to sack staff who repeatedly come back for just a week or so then go off sick for two months on a pattern repeating across years. They are clearly not able to do the job.

It never caused any complaints from parents or students.

A level and KS4 are prioritised in terms of teaching. Teachers were taken from KS3 and cover was supplied for KS3.

If it was long term then a full time supply teacher was brought in. Grades and student performance was never really affected.

SouthWamses · 28/08/2025 12:32

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 28/08/2025 12:07

It never caused any complaints from parents or students.

A level and KS4 are prioritised in terms of teaching. Teachers were taken from KS3 and cover was supplied for KS3.

If it was long term then a full time supply teacher was brought in. Grades and student performance was never really affected.

Your school was clearly fortunate to have that flexibility and to be able to locate long term supply teachers. My local school has an ongoing struggle to recruit any maths teachers at all and lower year classes are often covered by nonspecialists for that reason already. Though for the cases I know long term supply wouldn’t work as the staff member would turn up for a few days every few weeks and you would have to assume they were back each time.

I know loads of pupils affected by this. Including impacting exam grades and university choices.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 28/08/2025 12:34

SouthWamses · 28/08/2025 12:32

Your school was clearly fortunate to have that flexibility and to be able to locate long term supply teachers. My local school has an ongoing struggle to recruit any maths teachers at all and lower year classes are often covered by nonspecialists for that reason already. Though for the cases I know long term supply wouldn’t work as the staff member would turn up for a few days every few weeks and you would have to assume they were back each time.

I know loads of pupils affected by this. Including impacting exam grades and university choices.

No schools can recruit maths teachers though.

SouthWamses · 28/08/2025 12:54

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 28/08/2025 12:34

No schools can recruit maths teachers though.

But getting a long term supply is easy?

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 28/08/2025 14:28

Not in Maths. The others are OK.

Kirbert2 · 28/08/2025 15:16

Enigma54 · 28/08/2025 10:29

Treatment can easily last a year or longer. Surgery, recovery, chemo, failed chemo, new chemo, failed chemo, radiotherapy, more chemo. And so it goes on.

Yep.

My son is a child and the one who had cancer but this is why I lost my job.

He had 5 surgeries, relapsed after 4 months, chemo and was in hospital for 10 months.

Enigma54 · 28/08/2025 17:11

Kirbert2 · 28/08/2025 15:16

Yep.

My son is a child and the one who had cancer but this is why I lost my job.

He had 5 surgeries, relapsed after 4 months, chemo and was in hospital for 10 months.

Im sorry to hear about your son and that you lost your job. Cancer certainly sucks and affects just about every aspect of a persons life.

bestcatlife · 28/08/2025 18:30

It happened to one of my colleagues. I was shocked to be honest as I thought the civil service would be more sympathetic.

VenusClapTrap · 28/08/2025 18:31

This happened to my friend very recently. Like a pp, from the moment she was diagnosed she was treated like she was lying. Her line manager and colleagues were horrible to her. Kept trying to ‘catch her out’.

Every time she had to book a day off for chemo, they told her it was inconvenient and tried to tell her to change her appointment.

When she was too ill to go in, she was harassed about when she’d be back and told how difficult she was making things for the rest of the team.

They tried to short cut procedures to sack her. She had to be very ‘on it’ in terms of knowing her rights, and got her union involved, to make sure proper procedure was followed.

The work situation added so much stress to an already horrific time. It really shouldn’t have been that way.

This wasn’t a small company either. No excuse.

gardenflowergirl · 28/08/2025 18:32

Cancer is classed as a disability. The employers can't dismiss her. She now has a case for constructive dismissal as employers haven't met their responsibilities regarding the Equality Act. she would win as there is protection in the Equality Act. Contact the union, an employment lawyer, ACAS.

CantHoldMeDown · 28/08/2025 18:36

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HollyBollyBooBoo · 28/08/2025 18:39

Yes that is the policy where I work. Recently seen it implemented with a colleague I used to work with.

independentfriend · 28/08/2025 18:50

It may not be as horrible as it first appears:

  • the loss of the job because they're incapable of doing it for reasons of ill health is evidence supporting any claim they make on a critical illness policy and/or for Employment and Support Allowance.
  • Relatedly, if they claim Universal Credit they may have been advised to let the employer dismiss them rather than resign

If you're worried your employer is being evil - join a trade union and start making plans to look elsewhere for work / try increasing your savings to give you some leeway if you leave in a hurry.

adviceatthislatestage · 28/08/2025 18:58

@Burntout01We have similar where I work- but almost 7 years. Always seems to be able return to work just before drop down to unpaid sick leave (so after almost a year). We’ve started putting a date in the calendar as to when the next period will be as it’s so obvious. 💯 agree with everything you’ve said about the team having to carry them, accruing leave, and extended phases returns. Not to mention the time taken to read all emails and refresh training, meaning it’s ages before being fully integrated into the team again.

Am assuming you’re public sector- as cannot imagine this goes on in the private?!

Enigma54 · 28/08/2025 19:30

VenusClapTrap · 28/08/2025 18:31

This happened to my friend very recently. Like a pp, from the moment she was diagnosed she was treated like she was lying. Her line manager and colleagues were horrible to her. Kept trying to ‘catch her out’.

Every time she had to book a day off for chemo, they told her it was inconvenient and tried to tell her to change her appointment.

When she was too ill to go in, she was harassed about when she’d be back and told how difficult she was making things for the rest of the team.

They tried to short cut procedures to sack her. She had to be very ‘on it’ in terms of knowing her rights, and got her union involved, to make sure proper procedure was followed.

The work situation added so much stress to an already horrific time. It really shouldn’t have been that way.

This wasn’t a small company either. No excuse.

God that is truly awful, your poor friend. Chemo is gruelling enough, without work sticking the knife in.

namechangedtemporarily123 · 28/08/2025 19:37

I know 2 people who were kept ‘on the books’ until they died, I assume to get the generous benefits for their families. This was two American owned cut throat media companies. It made me feel better about both companies knowing they did that. They were covered by long term temps and everyone was very compassionate during their illness and when they died.

HopefulBeliever · 28/08/2025 19:54

Burntout01 · 27/08/2025 20:57

I have a colleague who has been absent either long term or multiple short term absences for approximately 8-9 months of each year for the last five years. They accrue annual leave whilst off sick (7 weeks a year) and when back are always on a phased return of between 0-50% of normal workload.
Having to carry this person ( cover their work) has had a long term adverse impact on the whole rest of the team and the person is now increasing alienated from the team as a whole.
I wish this person would be dismissed on capability grounds as I feel it would do them and the team as a whole a favor. I doubt it will ever happen though and they will continue to receive nearly 50k a year for no more than 20% of the actual workload.

I feel like I have worked with the same person.

BananaBreadWithCustard · 28/08/2025 20:30

Yes, it can happen. I was involved in an HR meeting last month (Civil Service) and the person involved is facing possible dismissal on grounds of ill health.

neighboursmustliveon · 28/08/2025 21:41

It happens all the time and often in the interests of the employee as it allows them to be paid holidays and notice plus they may be able to apply for their occupational pension. Almost everyone know who had treatment for cancer was back after a year give or take. Those that weren’t were not coming back, usually because they were terminally ill or the illness, treatment and age meant they were no longer fit. One personal recovered from the cancer but became mentally unwell and wouldn’t return to work. She was off nearly 2 years. They couldn’t keep her job open forever!

BooneyBeautiful · 28/08/2025 23:18

ComfortFoodCafe · 27/08/2025 20:59

I couldn’t work for a company that had ethics like that.

The NHS let people go in these circumstances. I know three people who this happened to. Two were off long-term sick with no prospect of them returning in the foreseeable future as they had chronic conditions (one was in her late twenties and the other was in her late fifties), and the other one had had a huge amount of sickness absences.

Back in the 1980s, a friend of mine had a catastrophic brain haemorrhage which left her severely disabled, unable to talk or communicate. Her employer had to let her go after a year, and she subsequently died a year or so later.

When it's unlikely that someone will ever be able to resume their role in any shape or form, or are likely to have continued sickness absences, I can't see how an employer can keep them on indefinitely.

BooneyBeautiful · 28/08/2025 23:25

Mydadsbirthday · 27/08/2025 21:33

I've never thought about this but it's very worrying.

My work has a very good life assurance policy for death in service so if I died suddenly or in an accident DH and DC would be very well provided for but I guess this doesn't apply if you have cancer and are dismissed.

Do most people take out their own insurance or critical illness cover? I've never even thought about it.

DD bought a house in 2020 and DS bought a house last year. Both have life insurance and critical illness cover.

BooneyBeautiful · 28/08/2025 23:44

Cluborange666 · 27/08/2025 22:25

A lot of insurance companies won’t cover you for critical illness if eg you have a hereditary cancer in the family.

For info, if you have a genetic test for a condition, you absolutely are NOT required to declare it for insurance purposes. The only exception to this is the test for Huntington's disease. You MUST declare that if it's positive.

BooneyBeautiful · 28/08/2025 23:48

Itstwelveoclocksomewhere · 27/08/2025 22:31

The person was dismissed due to having cancer and having a terminal diagnosis. Because he was the only person made redundant and cancer is a disability, he was told that the legal position was he had a 'rock solid' legal case.
He told the caller that a dismissal based on disability could only be due to having an ignorant HR department. He actually checked the size of the company as he assumed that only a small company would be that unknowledgeable. He advised that the judge would absolutely find in his favour.

But he wasn't being made redundant as the post was still there. He was being let go because he could no longer do his job due to ill health. There is a significant difference.

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