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Difficult boss

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CAG2003 · 24/08/2025 19:58

I work for a small company with just 2 employees. We work extremely hard over very long hours and will often go a month without a single day off- if we do get a day off it is only a Sunday. The job is arguably dangerous and in all honesty our pay doesn’t reflect these things.
We both put our all into the job and without sounding too arrogant (and still appreciating people do have days where they aren’t 100% efficient) we do a good job.
The issue is our boss speaks to us like we’re literal dogs. He barks one word orders at us even in front of clients and shows very little respect for us. He never tells us we’ve done a good job (which a lot of bosses in the same industry will take opportunities to do) or offers constructive criticism to help us learn but is very quick to tell us things we have done wrong. By wrong I mean silly little things that don’t actually matter… ironically he’s not bothered about things that actually do. It is usually over things we already know and know how to do but are yet to get to it/ are doing it a slightly different way to how he would but would still get the same result.

Earlier he was speaking to me like I was a bit of sh** on his shoe in front of about 20 people whilst I was presenting something to them.
people have picked up on this and the lack of appreciation he shows for us both.

I love my job- if I didn’t I wouldn’t be able to put the hours in I do but earlier I genuinely felt like shoving him the product and telling him to do it himself if I’m that useless. What makes it more confusing is that at times he can be a really good bloke
I am fed up of being spoken to in such a way and was wondering if anyone has any advice… if I grew a pair I would love to approach him and professionally explain that I’m not happy with how we’re spoken to and how we are treated like we are just invisible “help” but I just don’t know how?

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abathofmilkwithladydi · 24/08/2025 20:00

What is this job??!!

HardworkSendHelp · 24/08/2025 20:07

That sounds awful. So you love your job but are treated like crap.
Why don’t you write him a letter stating your issues. There is no way in gods earth I would be spoken to like that.
Would you not look for a new job.?

Willquery123 · 25/08/2025 02:21

You get hardly any time off from a dangerous job in which you're underpaid AND your boss treats you like shit??

Hmm...what to do 🤔

Friendlygingercat · 25/08/2025 02:26

I can recall a boss telling me off in front of colleagues. I called him into a nearby office and gave him down the banks for the way he spoke to me. I told him "If you speak to me like that again in front of colleagues I will answer back in kind."

He never did it again.

healthybychristmas · 25/08/2025 04:04

Why don't both of you tackle him together via email? You could threaten that you would both immediately leave which would leave him completely screwed. There is safety and strength in you both doing it together.

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