How do you deal with this?
I am in a leadership role and this is the first big thing I've led on, despite being in the role for a few years. This is the first thing that is going to shake up people's working practices and affect their day to day working life. It needs to happen and obviously I was tasked to do this by my boss, who is everyone's boss. I am well-qualified to lead on it and have done a huge amount of research.
The backlash has been quite strong and I'm feeling a bit under-attack. I feel people are resistant to change and, frankly, in some cases, just don't want to put the work in, but ultimately I have failed to win them over, which must be on me. Boss is supportive but I think feels I haven't communicated this properly so also a bit disappointed. We have made some concessions now which, while not the end of the world (or the project) do have the potential to dilute it somewhat.
Some people who I thought had a level of respect for me and a positive working relationship have pushed back, which has been hurtful, while a couple of others are 'usual suspects'. Other than learning from it how else can I deal with this?