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Manager and my career

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ByLimeAnt · 02/05/2025 21:23

I started a new job about 8 months ago as a member of the senior leadership team in a technical company. The role was sold to me as involving oversight of specialist areas in which I had specific experience - the interviewers which included my manager knew and commented positively on this.

But since I've started I've essentially been doing admin with very little technical input. In my second month I put together a management plan to address a particular challenge and when I showed him he looked at me as if I were quite mad for doing it (not unimpressed with the work, more the idea that I would be proactive).

I've tried very hard to speak to him about this but he only rings me 1-2 a week (works in another branch about 120 miles away) and the rest of the time I'm alone. When I ring him he is always dashing off to a meeting and cuts the conversation off. I never get any feedback and he forgot my probationary review meeting. I actually feel like I've taken three steps down the ladder (thankfully job title and salary do not reflect this!).

I have no problem with him as a person, I just dont rate his management skills.

He's perfectly nice to me and actually rather kind.

I've had positive feedback from my direct reports and senior staff.

I'm otherwise happy as it is a nice team.

I would appreciate advice on handling this. No desire to cause conflict and don't really want to get a new job.

OP posts:
parietal · 03/05/2025 01:26

Can you book a meeting? Specify that you want an hour to talk about your career. If he only gives you 5 minutes, reschedule the meeting until you can get his time.

StellaShining · 03/05/2025 02:44

I agree that you need to pin him down and have a proper chat with him. I’d emphasise the positives you’ve mentioned above and ask him what your objectives are and what he thinks you should be doing to meet them. Perhaps he’s just giving you time to settle in and has got busy?

Notmyrealname22 · 03/05/2025 02:58

Put in regular 1 on 1 meetings, either weekly or fortnightly. Send an agenda 1 to 2 days ahead of the meeting. If he’s a no show, message or email him. If he is constantly a no show, maybe start talking to his boss with evidence of all the no shows.

AlphaApple · 03/05/2025 07:26

Sounds like you are going to have to book a f2f meeting!

Also, just get on and do the things you want to do. If you are senior leadership you should have a certain amount of autonomy?

What happens in leadership meetings?

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