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How do I stall this job offer?

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AgualusasLover · 21/04/2025 17:28

job 1: I’m up for promotion at work, alongside two colleagues and one external person. There is possibly one more interview to be had, so perhaps 1-1.5 weeks left in the process. I really would like this job. I have a very good shot, but obviously you never know. I’ve been here for 3 years and this would be my second promotion (if successful).

Job 2: Around the same time an equivalent role at one of our biggest competitors came up and I applied as a back up. They have now offered me the job, I’m just waiting for the terms. This is a great opportunity if I didn’t already work where I do - think moving one magic circle law firm to another (but non fee earning). I would literally bite their hand off. It is a contract, but that’s ok for me.

I’ve worked at a competitor before and we all work in very similar ways and both are great ‘names’ for the CV.

Issue is job 2 need an answer, they know I have a longer notice period than they would have liked given contract timings, but of course I want to know the outcome of the internal process. I would take the internal role if offered, but if I didn’t already work here job 2 would be too good an opportunity to turn down.

All other things are likely similar, commute/pay/bonus/perks.

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Wallywobbles · 28/04/2025 22:24

Definitely time for a change.

AgualusasLover · 30/04/2025 14:08

More updates - the recruiting manager here has put in a meeting with me today. She had a call with the person I work this morning (they have no reason to speak to each other - my line manager is separate) and none of the other internal candidates had a call go in with their person.

She may just want to give me feedback.

I am so on edge.

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Crankyaboutfood · 30/04/2025 14:32

fingers crossed. remember you are in a great position.

AgualusasLover · 30/04/2025 17:56

Well I didn’t get it - a great colleague did.

not upset about not getting it, I am happy with my new role, a bit peeved that feedback was ‘we have no feedback, none at all, you were amazing, all your answers were spot on, you would be incredible, in fact it’s not you, as an organisation we should have done more to harness your talent’.

lovely but not altogether very insightful or helpful.

Anyway, off to the competitor with a promise of coffees and lunches over the next year as they don’t want to lose touch.

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Calmdownpeople · 30/04/2025 18:04

Tbh I wouldn’t speed up the process I would probably say to myself that you weren’t committed to your current company and it would just be a matter of time before you went anywhere. I don’t think this puts you in a strong position, I think it puts doubt in job 1’s mind.

thehorsesareallidiots · 30/04/2025 18:13

Ah, I see you have your answer now. Tbh, I was ready to post and say that if the knowledge that you had a credible offer from someone else hadn't lit a fire under them, it was a no.

Sounds like a good move regardless. Enjoy the new job.

Init4thecatz · 30/04/2025 18:20

Any non-compete issues?

IDontHateRainbows · 30/04/2025 19:06

If current job want you, telling them you have another offer won't make them offer your colleague. If anything they'll want you more.

AgualusasLover · 30/04/2025 20:43

Thanks for all the advice on this thread.

I am a believer in everything happening for a reason, and the new company is somewhere I have applied to before as a team member and never even got past CV sifting so it’s a great opportunity.

No non competes as it’s a support function so should be ok, HR have the resignation so just waiting for them to confirm I can leave a little earlier and any other issues.

The whole lack of feedback was a bit upsetting even though it was all wonderful. Even if they could just say ‘the other candidate (who is fantastic) made more of x/was felt to fit better with the leadership team’ it would feel a bit better.

But she has asked if I would do lunch with her to talk through my ambitions and if I would be up for quarterly coffees to keep up to speed on developments.

All in all, I know I am in a wonderful position and I am allow myself a bit of a wallow today and tomorrow I’ll start prepping for exit (and a leaving party).

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