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DD severely disabled. How can she make money from home?

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Lele101 · 06/04/2025 15:24

My daughter doesn’t claim anything at all, my mil has money and has been financially supporting her essentials. Rent/bills/food

but my daughter wants to make her own money. At least like a side hustle. Any work from home jobs.

she finished school with GCSE’s and doesn’t have any qualifications.

She recently became disabled. She can rarely leave the house and doctors think it’s going to be a at least a few years till she can walk/move her body much again.

do you guys have any ideas?

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x2boys · 06/04/2025 16:56

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:45

To answer question about benefits:

with all the news about benefit cuts, wanting much less people on pip, tightening criteria/rules so much less people can get it, and getting disabled people into work it really put us off. Especially because my daughter is young and has an invisible disability. We had elderly disabled people/family friends tell us they struggled to get it/were rejected many times and had to fight to get it. That’s it is extremely hard to get even for elderly people. Plus her illness affects people differently, some have very mild symptoms. just don’t think they’d believe she’s that disabled. I don’t know.

and even if she does get PiP, she still wants to work.

Edited

Loads of disabillities affect people differently
Its about how the disabillity affects a person s
Not the disabillity itself
Many people in receipt of PIP do work .

Pandimoanymum · 06/04/2025 16:56

x2boys · 06/04/2025 16:39

How old is she you say all her GCSE,s are A* to C bearing in mind that its been several years in England a least since GCSE,s were graded with a letter
And why is she not claiming for PIP and UC?

Maybe OP lives in Wales, we still have the old letter-based grades here.

3WildOnes · 06/04/2025 16:58

frenchnoodle · 06/04/2025 16:50

If she has limited mobility it's not an invisible disability.

There are a number of invisible disabilities that can leave people with very limited mobility. Arthritis, ME, EDS to name but a few.

How old is she OP.

Does she have an EHCP? If not get this sorted and get them to fund an online school for A levels.

Reach out to a charity to support with the PIP process.

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:59

Sourgherkin · 06/04/2025 16:48

How is this an “invisible disability”? if It is a serious physical disability? So presuming it’s not a physical disability as others have…. Ironing to make quick money
study for future employment

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It is a physical disability, a rare neurological condition

what I meant was if you just looked at her for however long those PiP people do? You wouldn’t think she was THAT disabled. Looks young and healthy.

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itsgettingweird · 06/04/2025 17:00

3WildOnes · 06/04/2025 16:58

There are a number of invisible disabilities that can leave people with very limited mobility. Arthritis, ME, EDS to name but a few.

How old is she OP.

Does she have an EHCP? If not get this sorted and get them to fund an online school for A levels.

Reach out to a charity to support with the PIP process.

It’s not Invisible then is it!

someone who has limited ability to move their body doesn’t have an invisible disability.

You can see that someone can’t sit to stand easily. You can see someone can’t raise their arm up.

x2boys · 06/04/2025 17:00

Pandimoanymum · 06/04/2025 16:56

Maybe OP lives in Wales, we still have the old letter-based grades here.

Which is why i said England at least.

frenchnoodle · 06/04/2025 17:01

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:59

It is a physical disability, a rare neurological condition

what I meant was if you just looked at her for however long those PiP people do? You wouldn’t think she was THAT disabled. Looks young and healthy.

Edited

You submit evidence with the forms, it's not all based on the ATOS assessment.

My brother has epilepsy, he didn't have to have a seizure in front of the assessor to prove it.

Pullmeunder · 06/04/2025 17:01

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:59

It is a physical disability, a rare neurological condition

what I meant was if you just looked at her for however long those PiP people do? You wouldn’t think she was THAT disabled. Looks young and healthy.

Edited

That’s not how the pip process, (just off looks) goes despite the horror stories and even if it did you’d appeal, if this is a rare neurological condition and with what the doctors have said you will have plenty of evidence to support the claim.

Bingbopboomboomboombopbam · 06/04/2025 17:02

@Lele101 it doesn’t matter what it looks like, does she have the relevant paperwork and diagnosis? That’s what she’ll be needing.

Really, she should get whatever she’s entitled to even as a worst case scenario. You never know what’s around the corner and then that’s money that’s hers no doubt. She’s entitled to it.

Soontobe60 · 06/04/2025 17:02

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:45

To answer question about benefits:

with all the news about benefit cuts, wanting much less people on pip, tightening criteria/rules so much less people can get it, and getting disabled people into work it really put us off. Especially because my daughter is young and has an invisible disability. We had elderly disabled people/family friends tell us they struggled to get it/were rejected many times and had to fight to get it. That’s it is extremely hard to get even for elderly people. Plus her illness affects people differently, some have very mild symptoms. just don’t think they’d believe she’s that disabled. I don’t know.

and even if she does get PiP, she still wants to work.

Edited

So what disability does she have then? There may be others on here with the same/similar who could give you specific advice.

itsgettingweird · 06/04/2025 17:03

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:59

It is a physical disability, a rare neurological condition

what I meant was if you just looked at her for however long those PiP people do? You wouldn’t think she was THAT disabled. Looks young and healthy.

Edited

If you have consultant reports stating how it affects her then submit those.

my ds is an ambulant wheelchair user. His legs will stop working anytime I’d say for no reason other than his neurological condition.

Doesn’t stop him being a swimmer and also getting enhanced pip. He works as a software developer as he can do that whether he can stand and move or not!

x2boys · 06/04/2025 17:03

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:59

It is a physical disability, a rare neurological condition

what I meant was if you just looked at her for however long those PiP people do? You wouldn’t think she was THAT disabled. Looks young and healthy.

Edited

They dont just look at her they will be taking into account medical reports etc

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 17:03

i think we just heard/read too many horror stories.

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notatinydancer · 06/04/2025 17:03

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 15:30

Yes she got good grades inc maths and English

what could she study without leaving the house?

a levels etc require to attend college

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You can do A levels online.

Lougle · 06/04/2025 17:04

If she's 18, here's the plan:

Apply for PIP.
Apply for an Education Health and Care needs assessment - you'll need to contact your Local Authority to make the application.
Apply for Universal Credit and declare the disability, asking for a work capability assessment.
Contact social care and ask for a needs assessment.

Pandimoanymum · 06/04/2025 17:04

Plus her illness affects people differently, some have very mild symptoms. just don’t think they’d believe she’s that disabled. I don’t know.
Well, one way to find out is to apply! They may say no, but you've nothing to lose by trying and they might say yes. I wouldn't take too much notice of relatives/friends anecdotal stories about their experiences, they'll all have different health conditions to your daughter, so whether they got awarded a benefit or not isn't really much of a guideline. Even if it's a no, you do have the option of an appeal, and given the fact a significant amount of appeals are successful ( i've been through two of them) again, it's worth doing.

Sourgherkin · 06/04/2025 17:05

im guessing fibromyalgia… which is very tricky re pip certainly the direction of travel

3WildOnes · 06/04/2025 17:05

itsgettingweird · 06/04/2025 17:00

It’s not Invisible then is it!

someone who has limited ability to move their body doesn’t have an invisible disability.

You can see that someone can’t sit to stand easily. You can see someone can’t raise their arm up.

I don't think you understand what an invisible disability is. It means that it isn't immediately obvious just to look at a person.

Soontobe60 · 06/04/2025 17:05

How old is she?

Coffeeishot · 06/04/2025 17:05

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 16:59

It is a physical disability, a rare neurological condition

what I meant was if you just looked at her for however long those PiP people do? You wouldn’t think she was THAT disabled. Looks young and healthy.

Edited

Yes but she has a medical condition with I'm assuming care needs or extra expense it isn't all about how she looks !

Lele101 · 06/04/2025 17:06

Sourgherkin · 06/04/2025 17:05

im guessing fibromyalgia… which is very tricky re pip certainly the direction of travel

No, not fibromyalgia

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Sourgherkin · 06/04/2025 17:06

3WildOnes · 06/04/2025 17:05

I don't think you understand what an invisible disability is. It means that it isn't immediately obvious just to look at a person.

The OP’s daughter can’t walk or really move

or would need a wheelchair

so not invisible

Gretnaglebe · 06/04/2025 17:06

Is your daughter an FND sufferer OP? Many people with this condition claim PIP. If it is. Lots of support online for this

adviceneeded1990 · 06/04/2025 17:06

I’d give a PIP claim a go if your daughter is genuinely disabled, that’s what it’s for. Other than that, open uni modules, distance learning courses at local colleges, typing and data entry roles, some call centres have WFM options, just look up WFH jobs there are more and more of them out there these days.

LadyKenya · 06/04/2025 17:06

Just put in a claim for PIP, outlining the difficulties that your Daughter has, due to her condition. Submit the medical evidence with the claim form. It does not matter what other people have faced, if anything at least you will know what to do if her claim is dismissed.

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