Hi, I’ve been off work for over a month due to personal circumstances beyond my control and the loss of a close family member. The timing has been awful because I’ve missed a number of meetings about big changes planned for my department. I’ve only been given the bare bones of the plans in writing. Yesterday I was informed that I’m at risk of redundancy due to these changes. I’ve apparently been scored on a skills matrix, which will be compared with the others in my team and the decision will be largely based on this. I also need to attend a consultation meeting to discuss the risk of redundancy and the skills matrix. I am effectively being forced into the position of needing to go to this meeting tomorrow even though I am off work and consumed with family matters. Otherwise I won’t have the chance to fight my corner. But I already feel I’m at a serious disadvantage as I’ve missed all the formal meetings and informal discussions around this. Any advice?