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Was this wrong?

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jimmybiscuit · 12/03/2025 19:46

I worked in a national store until last June when I saw a job in head office (part wfh part store) which meant I could now full time and earn a lot more plus I could be at home with my children.
A couple of my former colleagues have since asked me to let them know of any jobs come up in my department. One of these is having a change of circumstances which means they will have to commute for an hour to and from work in the near future.
A role came up in my dept, similar to mine but full time at home, so I let my former colleague know. I have since found out that the managers of my old store have complained to my managers that I was "poaching" their staff.
Was this the wrong thing to do? The member of staff has decided not to go for the job anyway, from my pov all I did was let them know about a role that would help them out massively with their change of circumstance and they aren't going to pursue it anyway.

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TeenLifeMum · 12/03/2025 19:49

Totally normal. Let them moan.

nomorezoflora · 12/03/2025 19:50

You were not wrong. If they can't keep their staff, they should offer better conditions eh?

jimmybiscuit · 12/03/2025 19:51

Thank you both! I honestly thought was going mad and had unknowingly made some massive faux pas

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flipent · 12/03/2025 19:51

If you’re not the hiring manager then it isn’t poaching in my opinion.

Also, if they could have found these jobs anyway - assuming advertised internally- then you’re drawing attention, not poaching.

Don’t even worry about it.

jimmybiscuit · 12/03/2025 19:57

This is reassuring, I have to go into the my ild store at the weekend and I was starting to worry something would be said. You have all given me some answers if it is mentioned

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jimmybiscuit · 18/03/2025 20:16

Updated old manager has discussed this with a former colleague I am close with and said they weren’t complaining, it’s just frustrating they train people up and others try and “poach” them… heaven forbid anyone should realise there’s a higher paid, more suitable job they could apply for 🙃

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