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Wfh flexible working and mandatory meetings

106 replies

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 18:45

If you have a non wfh contract originally.
However, you have an agreed flexible working agreement and you live 500 miles away.
Can work suddenly make meetings in person mandatory, if they were previously on teams, can be done on teams but your line manager says they want it for the woolly reason of encouraging face to face collaboration. However they can be done on line. No real benefit to go in person. What is the legal position because these are meetings that are considered mandatory in my field. Is this discrimination against remote workers?

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surreygirl1987 · 12/03/2025 20:37

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 20:30

Thanks. I think it’s difficult to trust they won’t redraw the line in sand again.
It’s not the area you would move a family to or could afford to easily live. So if moved closer would still have to be a hour commute or so (which is better than 5) but still difficult as single parent if it was every day going in in the future. I thought I had an agreement but it seems that these things are never set in stone.

Well, it is set in stone if it is formally and clearly worked into your contract. Is it, or isn't it?

(Of course, contracts can be changed by the employer, but there is an official process they have to go through)

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:38

There are no schemes with a retirement age of 60 anymore I am afraid it's either 65 or linked to state pension age

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 20:40

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:38

There are no schemes with a retirement age of 60 anymore I am afraid it's either 65 or linked to state pension age

You are not correct!

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Ritzybitzy · 12/03/2025 20:44

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:38

There are no schemes with a retirement age of 60 anymore I am afraid it's either 65 or linked to state pension age

Incorrect.

Fatloss · 12/03/2025 20:47

You say that the union can’t do anything. Have you already asked for advice and what did they say?

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:48

Ritzybitzy · 12/03/2025 20:44

Incorrect.

What scheme then , classic proportion possibly but that was stopped along time ago

Loopytiles · 12/03/2025 20:50

In your shoes I’d sort some childcare, even if it cost a lot, to do the six times a year as it’d be much harder to find something comparable where you are or remotely.

Loopytiles · 12/03/2025 20:51

They didn’t ‘move the goalposts’ you took a massive risk that you’d be able to work for this employer remotely indefinitely and have been lucky so far.

Silkrose · 12/03/2025 21:17

@Sheldonsheher I think you and I may work closely IRL. I can see you have changed some details here but fundamentally this is exactly the situation that is happening with someone in my workplace so I assume it’s you.

I don’t want to out you or for you to out me but I may be able to give you some specific advice on how to manage this- if you want it.

Shubbypubby · 12/03/2025 21:19

If you're civil service, could you get a transfer to a site closer to home?

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 21:24

Silkrose · 12/03/2025 21:17

@Sheldonsheher I think you and I may work closely IRL. I can see you have changed some details here but fundamentally this is exactly the situation that is happening with someone in my workplace so I assume it’s you.

I don’t want to out you or for you to out me but I may be able to give you some specific advice on how to manage this- if you want it.

I hope not I’m trying to keep it vague!

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Silkrose · 12/03/2025 21:35

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 21:24

I hope not I’m trying to keep it vague!

Are you MHW?

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 21:38

What is MHW ?

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livelovelough24 · 12/03/2025 21:43

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 21:38

What is MHW ?

I was just googling it 🤣, but I think that was supposed to be your initials.

Silkrose · 12/03/2025 21:52

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 21:38

What is MHW ?

I have DM’d you with advice regardless of whether you are who I think you are, or not!

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 21:56

Thanks Im not your colleague but appreciate your message!

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flipent · 12/03/2025 22:35

Sheldonsheher · 12/03/2025 20:01

lol thankfully you are not my boss. Unnecessarily pompous remark.

I am equally grateful you’re not in my team!

Neurodiversitydoctor · 13/03/2025 05:12

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:48

What scheme then , classic proportion possibly but that was stopped along time ago

I am NHS the Mc Cloud judgement has meant that many of us will be able to retire or at least semi retire at 60 ( actually from 55) I think civil service is the same. Although hardly the point here.

Truthseeker456 · 13/03/2025 06:03

Neurodiversitydoctor · 13/03/2025 05:12

I am NHS the Mc Cloud judgement has meant that many of us will be able to retire or at least semi retire at 60 ( actually from 55) I think civil service is the same. Although hardly the point here.

NHS is local government not public sector and that is not exactly that what judgement meant

Truthseeker456 · 13/03/2025 07:58

The judgement impacted all public sector pensions. There are no schemes with a pension age of 55 or 60 anymore

Sheldonsheher · 13/03/2025 08:34

If your pension is a lot in the legacy schemes I think you can still retire on a reduced pension as far as I was advised by a financial advisor.

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Doggymummar · 13/03/2025 08:41

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:23

And you are 8 years to retirement ... That would make you at least 55

60, retirement is 68

Clarice99 · 13/03/2025 08:43

Truthseeker456 · 12/03/2025 20:38

There are no schemes with a retirement age of 60 anymore I am afraid it's either 65 or linked to state pension age

Incorrect.

Depending on the employer/employment type, people can and do retire much younger than state pension age.

Picklepower · 13/03/2025 08:58

I don't think it is a grey area at all. It depends entirely on what your contract says and you haven't been able to answer that very clearly. Does it say you work from home entirely and that is your base of work? Or does it have a clause that says you may be expected to work from the office if required or something along those lines? When this was all agreed did you receive a contract amendment letter that said you base of work is now home? You use flexible working and home working interchangably but they are two different things.

If your contract fully states you work from home with absolutely 0 reference to coming to the office then great, point this out to your employer. They would have been extremely foolish to put that in contract though so I find it hard to believe it would say that.

If your contract expresses a requirement for some on site working, I don't understand how you think you have a leg to stand on. And no, it is not discrimination. I guess you could take it to court and try, maybe it would be a landmark case.

Someone else mentioned a carers passport. You could explore this as an adjustment with your manager that you don't attend on site meetings due to caring responsibilities.