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Bully store manager gone - colleagues want me back

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Notyouthful · 03/03/2025 15:28

Left my job in November as got bullied by the store manager. His behaviour was 95% why I left . Got fed up of crying about work. Raised a grievance which did nothing. Heard from a few former colleagues that he has been demoted back to his previous managerial role. It was all sudden. No one knows why.

Every colleague wants me back. Though I am not so sure if I am comfortable going back there. Love my colleagues, its a few horrible customers that I can't stand. No jobs available on the employer's website. If I am wanted back, I am asking not to do as many hours - probably knocking off a day and a couple of hours. Had no job since then and been to about 10 interviews/assessments in that time.

Any advice please?

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Sulu17 · 03/03/2025 15:31

The problem is that your previous workplace did nothing when you complained about the bullying store manager. I am not sure I'd want to go back to a company like that. Plus you don't like some of the customers. I don't think I would go back, OP. However why don't you start inviting out your nice colleagues? Or maybe meet them for coffee or have them around to your place for dinner?

purplecorkheart · 03/03/2025 15:31

I think the first thing you need to do is reach out and see if there is a job available at all. If there isn't then you do not need to take up the headspace worrying about what to do.

DiddyHeck · 03/03/2025 15:35

You've jumped the gun.

Contact them and see if they'll have you back.

No point in wasting mental energy until you've done this.

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 03/03/2025 15:38

Colleagues want you back but is there a job offer attached?

If there is, then I'd consider taking them up on it if you feel it wouldn't be detrimental to mental health. Looking for a new job is easier when you have a job. Take it, continue looking for others. If you go back and love it amazing. If not then it's a source of income while you're looking.

But what I think is actually happening is they're all going oh he's left OP could come back when there is no job even open.

wastingtimeonhere · 03/03/2025 18:05

Same thing happened to me, I did have a moment of 'do I' then decided that those same colleagues didn't put their heads above the parapet for me either, so I moved on..Life is different, but actually better, I have a much better work/ life balance now. Unless you are approached by management, I wouldn't go there. It's the companies loss, 15 yrs of experience lost to them...idiots.

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