I work permanent night shift and work opposite shifts to my partner. He works dayshift for childcare purposes. We have a 2 year old and literally no support network. We don't have anybody at all to help us out with baby sitting, our families live too far away. When I went back to work after maternity leave 15 months ago I was really clear in explaining my situation and he seemed supportive at the time. Most of our training is done on zoom calls but we do have the occasional in house training. All these times are through the day and ai cannot attend them because I have my daughter. My partner works until 4pm so if the training was later which does sometimes happen I can obviously attend. My manager is now saying he was not fully aware of my childcare situation, threatening me with disciplinary action and making out I am frustrated about doing any training at all which is absolutely not the case. Where do I go from here please?