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To quit, only 10 months?

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partygarden · 13/02/2025 19:49

I've name changed for this.

I've been at my corporate London job for 10 months. Knew it was 'toxic' (overused word but 100% applicable in this case) from the first day.

Can anyone give me words of advice, I feel really emotional this evening after -yet another- awful day.

Cons of this job:

  • Unfriendly work environment. Tiny department in massive company, we sit with finance (we're not finance) and nobody talks to anyone else from other teams. Took me ages to get used to this, I did try to be friendly at first!
About in my second week, I got a post it note on my keyboard when I went for lunch just saying "work friend" and the women (in finance) around me basically giggled and didn't acknowledge me after that.
  • 2 hours commute 2 days a week. 3 hours one day per week to different site (all one way)
  • constant meetings with different stakeholders where I'm expected to prepare and present but no time to do this due to the back to back meetings and ridiculous workload.
  • too much work, not enough people. redundancies when I started, my team went from 5 to 2 and shortly one is leaving. Meaning I have ti cover anything left over, which is an unmanageable amount of admin (my job is not an admin job but they've got rid of our admin staff).
  • crap pay. I'm £10k under average for my role but took this (I won't go into it too much but I came off maternity leave and took this job because it sounded like a good opportunity).
  • crap leadership.
  • my boss in my 121 today told me that her boss said I'm "very bad" at my job and had said "not nice things" about me to other ppl, including my boss. My boss is an intense micromanager and very manipulative, so don't know if this is true or not, but it's left me in tears as I have given my all these past 10 months, worked so much overtime, done 3 peoples jobs, and to be criticised in this blasé and unhelpful way feels really cruel!
  • my boss also pits me and my colleague against each other, very he said, she said.
  • no systems or processes, everything is an excel spreadsheet. No autonomy in my role, I can't even send an email without needing to cc in my boss. There's certain people my boss doesn't like and she basically forbids me from
Speaking to them.
  • remaining staff have called in sick constantly
  • pretty sure I had a panic attack today on a call

Pros are it's a job and it helps pay nursery fees, the corporate company is a really good one to have on my cv.

What to do! Stick it out until 2 years (I wanted to have this company stamped on my cv) or look for something else for sake of sanity. Has anyone else done this?

I really can't see the wood for the trees. Any advice appreciated

OP posts:
YoYoFlo · 13/02/2025 19:53

It sounds absolutely dreadful- I'd be looking for something else.

värskekapsas · 13/02/2025 19:58

deffinetly look for something else! It would take some time to find something plus notice period, which will give you a year at that place which is not so bad for a CV. Everything you said it would be very reasonable to leave

tiredoflondonbutnotlife · 13/02/2025 20:00

värskekapsas · 13/02/2025 19:58

deffinetly look for something else! It would take some time to find something plus notice period, which will give you a year at that place which is not so bad for a CV. Everything you said it would be very reasonable to leave

This.

sweetpeaorchestra · 13/02/2025 20:26

Take a few days off sick and contact temp agencies. I’m sure you could get temp work and just absorb this job into that period on your cv.
It’s not worth panic attacks ! It can really scar your confidence in the longer term so don’t stay longer than you have to.

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 13/02/2025 20:29

Gosh! I’d leave. As soon as you decide to you’ll feel 100% better knowing you’re going. I wouldn’t tolerate such an environment. Felt tired reading about it. X

SandrenaIsMyBloodType · 13/02/2025 20:51

Goodness no. You can't hang on for 2 years in such an awful environment. One year of that on your CV is plenty. Start looking. Hopefully the private knowledge that you and determined to leave will make the next couple of months feel more bearable and then you'll be out.

Wibble128 · 13/02/2025 20:57

Leave, believe in yourself and your worth there are good companies out there. Life is too short.

Beebsta · 13/02/2025 21:04

Start looking for a new job asap. Think about acceptable reasons you can talk about in interviews for leaving (this role really excites me, lack of career progressions, blah, blah, blah).

Just one fyi, lots of corporates have back to back meetings all day and you can’t get any actual work done. I’m facing this problem too.

good luck! It sounds awful.

Notatallanamechange · 14/02/2025 00:48

Increasingly companies are moving away from CVs as the only measure of employability. For reasons just like this. Do not break yourself for a thankless task; leave.

partygarden · 14/02/2025 05:39

Hi everyone, thanks so much for your comments- I've taken all onboard.

It's hard to feel confident when the set up is fixed at this job to make you fail - there's just too much work for one person to do and really awful politics and ways of working.

I am going to work on my cv today.

OP posts:
sugarspiceandeverythingnice12 · 14/02/2025 05:54

Well done @partygarden

Life's way too short to be so unhappy Flowers

DanDanDaaaaaaaann · 14/02/2025 06:23

"About in my second week, I got a post it note on my keyboard when I went for lunch just saying "work friend" and the women (in finance) around me basically giggled and didn't acknowledge me after that."

Jesus Christ. I would have stood up and called them a pathetic bunch of cunts and laughed at them. But I do appreciate that not everyone gives no fucks like me.

I've left jobs after a much shorter time than that.

You get one life. Don't make it miserable for a job.

ForLovingAquaSheep · 14/02/2025 06:26

Get moving, if you're on 3 month notice you'll have closer to 18 months on you CV by the time you find a job and work your notice.

If I have short stints like that ii just say they were short term contracts. Who's to know differently?

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