Last year, I found a great job nearby with a fantastic team and flexible work arrangements, which is so important for me as a single mom. This flexibility is crucial since my ex isn’t very involved with the kids.
A few months ago, a senior colleague asked me out, and I politely turned him down. However, he hasn’t let it go and continues to pursue me despite my clear rejection. I’ve made it very clear I’m not interested in him or any kind of relationship. At one point, he even said, “You and your clear no (real name), leaving no wiggle room—are you sure you’re single?” I responded by saying that even single people have the right to say no, and I deserve for that to be respected.
It’s clear he understands the situation, but his behavior hasn’t stopped. While I had hoped this would be the end of it, it’s still ongoing. I’m at the bottom of the organization, so I’m hesitant to report him.
On top of that, my manager has been encouraging me to apply for an apprenticeship, but I had planned to wait until my youngest is out of nursery in about 18 months time. Childcare is expensive, and I’m worried I’ll be overwhelmed if I apply now and get accepted.
This guy’s actions are really starting to throw me off my plans. I’m not sure what to do, so I’d really appreciate any advice.