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Starting new job

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MushroomSoupandcroutons · 19/11/2024 09:51

I don't know if I am being unreasonable in my expectations....

I'm starting a new job at the beginning of December - contract signed etc.

10 days ago, I emailed my manager-to-be to say that the week I start I would need either a couple of hours / half a days leave for a pre-arranged event (that I would have been able to go to straight from work if I hadn't changed location).

I know it's not ideal in my first week, but it's literally a couple of hours and it's not a job where someone else would have to pick up my work if I wasn't there - and I will have only been there 2 days by then so won't have my own workload at that stage.

I haven't heard anything. (I did also email her weeks ago about something else and never got a response, but managed to get the answer via HR).

It seems a bit odd to me. I've been a manager in the past and always went out of my way to communicate with new recruits, make sure they feel welcome and know what's going on.
I know nothing up to this point, except what day I have to be there.

What I don't want is to have to ask on my first day about the time off.

But perhaps as I don't start until 2nd Dec I am worrying too much?

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HermioneWeasley · 19/11/2024 10:31

Did you say in your email how you would cover those hours (proposing to work them back or take half a day holiday?) . Did you ask if that was going to disrupt your planned induction?

BatFaceGiirll · 19/11/2024 10:34

I think the time to have mentioned this would have been at job offer / contract receiving time tbh. That would have been best practice

All you can do now is wait and see if you get a response and if not, raise again on your first week

MushroomSoupandcroutons · 19/11/2024 11:02

HermioneWeasley · 19/11/2024 10:31

Did you say in your email how you would cover those hours (proposing to work them back or take half a day holiday?) . Did you ask if that was going to disrupt your planned induction?

Yes I suggested I took leave - either in hours - if that's what they do - or half a day.

@BatFaceGiirll yes I should have mentioned it earlier- in fact I mentioned it the day I returned my signed contract.

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booisbooming · 19/11/2024 11:34

It sounds like you've done everything OK, you are still at the returning contracts stage and don't start for 2 weeks!

She's probably just forgotten.

Give it a couple of days and send a friendly email. "Really looking forward to starting, let me know if you need anything else, I hope the half day leave I mentioned in my last email was OK?"

MushroomSoupandcroutons · 19/11/2024 11:55

booisbooming · 19/11/2024 11:34

It sounds like you've done everything OK, you are still at the returning contracts stage and don't start for 2 weeks!

She's probably just forgotten.

Give it a couple of days and send a friendly email. "Really looking forward to starting, let me know if you need anything else, I hope the half day leave I mentioned in my last email was OK?"

Thanks @booisbooming for being positive 😀

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