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Would you consider this job at 55?

42 replies

DumpedByText · 17/11/2024 11:56

I've always been interested in being an ambulance call handler. I've never applied before as I'm a lone parent so couldn't do the shifts.

DD is now old enough to leave alone and will go to uni next year. I've now applied, passed the tests and have an interview lined up. I've seen the shift pattern and there are 14 different shifts! I naively thought they would be straight 12 hour shifts, as did all the other people at the assessment tests, they were as shocked as me at the shift pattern.

It will be an hour drive each way for me to get there, there are 12 hour shifts, but some are 5pm -3am or 6pm - 1am and there are 14 different timed shifts.

I'm 55 and people are saying I'm too old for this kind of pressure, plus I know it will be a stressful job. I'm in turmoil of whether to go for the interview or just leave it and accept it may be too much.

What do you think, would you do it at 55?

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WhitePoinsettia · 17/11/2024 17:23

w0nderwall · 17/11/2024 12:30

Am same age and considering a career change, similarly now kids don’t need me so much. I personally wouldn’t want that length of commute combined with the shift pattern - but then I’ve never thought about being an ambulance call handler. But you might love it. (I’m thinking about retraining as a teacher, which also isn’t for everyone and I’m realising that there is no way of knowing ahead of time if I’ll be good at it/enjoy it - so going through the process is part of making the decision).

Could you give yourself a mental deadline and see if you actually like the job? Could you make changes to make it work better? Could you live closer during the week? Be part time? Combine being part time in this with whatever you do now?

That’s interesting. I’d love to retrain as a teacher but think no one will be interested as I’m 54.

At this age is it still possible to train as a teacher here? I’d love to hear more.

Foy19 · 17/11/2024 17:25

You might find the shifts a bit harder going at 55 than at 25, especially night shifts - but if you want it, go for it!

w0nderwall · 17/11/2024 17:33

@WhitePoinsettia there’s an organisation, Now Teach, that specialises in coaching career changers into teaching. Apparently it’s a pretty standard age for their applicants. Also I looked at the stats and saw about 200 people in their fifties and above trained last year. So not loads but also not none.

nowteach.org.uk

WhitePoinsettia · 17/11/2024 17:46

Wow, thanks for the info.

AyrshireTryer · 17/11/2024 17:47

You will be great at this.
Do it.

OolongTeaDrinker · 17/11/2024 18:20

DumpedByText · 17/11/2024 12:04

I think the shift pattern is awful, I can't get my head around why they need 14 different times. Straight 12 hour shifts would make more sense, but I'm not clued up on staffing a control centre.

I did shifts for 18 years when I was younger, I was fine with it then. I'm just scared of letting this opportunity pass by, but scared it will be too much.

I would just give it a go and see how you get on - if it doesn't suit, you can resign, but at least you wont be left wondering 'what if'.

Kitkat1523 · 17/11/2024 18:28

I’m later 50s and I couldn’t handle those shifts…..I worked nights in my 30s/40s …..11 hours ……8pm to 7am….it messed my body up….I was always tired…..never felt well

Tumbler2121 · 18/11/2024 00:11

Although the shift times are odd, presumably it’s three days a week, so there’s four days without shifts or travel to work ..

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 18/11/2024 00:24

Teenagequeenwithaloadedgun · 17/11/2024 16:47

Also, I don't think 55 is old - you have at least 12 years to retirement!

12 years until a pension you mean? Many people can and do retire a lot earlier than that.

OP, how do you sleep? I'm a couple of years younger and my answer would be 'not well enough'. I'd be worried about the shiftwork making that worse, and even more worried about the 1hr drive in the middle of the night if I'm sleep deprived.

I can (and do) handle long hours and lots of complexity and stress, but not at the expense of my sleep!

AntiHop · 18/11/2024 00:46

Are you giving up another job if you get this one? If so, how much do you love the current job?

timetodecide2345 · 18/11/2024 01:01

Stop focusing on the number. Every one is different. You can have 75 year olds with the physique of 55 year olds and visa versa.

Give it a go.

WetBandits · 18/11/2024 01:02

I did my nurse training with a 55 year old lady who had been a teacher for her entire career and decided to completely retrain. She coped fine!

potatocakesinprogress · 18/11/2024 01:13

Teenagequeenwithaloadedgun · 17/11/2024 16:47

Also, I don't think 55 is old - you have at least 12 years to retirement!

It's not about the age to retirement, it's that you could be starting work at 7am one day and 9pm another and 1am another, it really messes with your routine. I worked with 19 year olds that couldn't handle it, let alone 55 year olds.

blueshoes · 18/11/2024 01:17

Go for it, OP.

The worst that could happen is you quit. Otherwise, you will spend the rest of your life living 'what if ...'.

Just get it out of your system. You might even love it.

Teenagequeenwithaloadedgun · 18/11/2024 07:40

If OP has always wanted to do the job and finds out that she loves it, she has at least 12 years of doing it.

I'd give it a try, I wouldn't give up before I'd even started because some people can't manage shift work.

HildaHosmede · 18/11/2024 07:47

Only you can really know if the shifts would bother you. If you're unsure, it's worth giving it a go.

Age isn't the only factor though. I'm 38 and I wouldn't consider any type of shift work that included changing hours or overnights because I'd hate it. I like to know exactly where I am. Years ago I worked a three week cycle of 8-4, 9-5 and 10-6 and I quickly moved roles because even that I detested!

Ratfinkstinkypink · 18/11/2024 08:05

I'd go for it, I'd rather try and fail than look back and wonder 'what if?'.

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