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Return from mat leave for a bit or just quit?

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AshSea · 18/09/2024 15:38

I am currently on maternity leave and have just been offered a job with the civil service. They have advised me not to hand in notice until after vetting and that it could take 2-3 months, although I have read it can take much, much longer. My maternity leave is due to end in December and my notice period is 8 weeks. So if the vetting was done by December, I'd still have to work for my current employer for another 2 months.
Thing is, I really really don't want to return to my current workplace. The people in my immediate team are great, everything else is awful. They have now asked me to attend the office for some KIT days. I had previously agreed to do some in person KIT days but that was before I knew I'll have something new lined up. Travelling to the office costs me a significant amount of money (I work remotely, so I'm not local) and I just cba now knowing that it's basically for nothing. I'm toying with the idea of just handing in my notice and risking it because I can afford to be unemployed for over a year. Not that I'd want to be and blow through my savings. The new job is obviously not firm until I've gone through vetting and I do worry what I'd do if the offer falls through for whatever reason.

What would you do?
Option A: Stay quiet and pay to attend the KIT days for the security of knowing I'd have a job to go back to should the new one not work out. I know I need to look out for myself first but I also feel like I'm messing them about. I work with a wonderful, tiny team and they're counting on my return.
Option B: Risk it and hand in my notice. I can afford to do it but I hate the idea of being unemployed and dipping into my savings, which I'd rather use for other things.

Maybe important to say that I only got statutory and don't need to pay anything back if I don't return.

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Howdull · 18/09/2024 15:39

I'd go for Option B.

It really depends on an individuals risk tolerance, thats all.

JoyousPinkPeer · 18/09/2024 15:52

B for me

BarnacleBeasley · 18/09/2024 15:56

They can't require you to do KIT days, so you could skip them without resigning straight away. Especially if they are going to cost you money - most people choose to do them in order to get paid.

LadyLapsang · 18/09/2024 17:10

Will you not have to repay some of your maternity salary if you don’t return for a minimum period? I would go for option A, vetting can take time depending on the level of clearance and you don’t want a gap on your CV.

AshSea · 18/09/2024 18:21

@LadyLapsang I only got statutory pay, which isn't repayable. The CV gap is a really good point - I hadn't thought that far.

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alpacachino · 18/09/2024 18:22

A. It will get you back into going into an office and get that bit out the way so when you start your new job you're used to the work routine again

AzureSheep · 18/09/2024 18:27

You should have accrued annual leave during the time you’ve been on mat leave, which you could take at the end of December when mat leave finishes. That would give you another 4 weeks(ish) off. So could you hand your notice in sometime in November?

HowcanIhelp123 · 18/09/2024 18:33

I know so many people that have been ghosted during vetting for civil service. I'd not risk it. I would try to use accrued annual leave to negotiate with employer that it's not worth you coming back and negotiate a shorter notice if comes to it.

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 18/09/2024 20:37

I’d say you aren’t going to do KIT days as they’re not something you’re obligated to do.

Tack annual leave onto mat leave as someone else suggested to buy more time.

Will you have been off 9 or 12 months in December? Or some other amount?

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