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Reassurance and/or advice needed!

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CherryPieSkies · 14/09/2024 20:28

Hello MN
It's been a while, & I've changed my name for this.
I took a risk due to stress & the desire for a change, & left the organisation I'd worked for since 2014 a few months ago. I was promoted a couple of times & was very familiar with the work I did, a lot of great relationships with interval/external colleagues etc. it was comfortable but no longer for me.
I applied for another job out of curiosity, ended up being shortlisted, interviewed & was offered the shop very soon after I left.
The new job is a much smaller organisation who seem very keen to get me doing new things & a range of things that I am excited about & it's very interesting but I am unbelievably overwhelmed as it's all so different.
I have been there for nearly 8 weeks now & have made a lot of mistakes (nothing particularly big) but my knowledge in most areas is so minimal & I feel completely stupid at least once a day.
I'm trying to ask lots of questions & from the start have been transparent about my last job being very different & that I'm 'still learning' but I get the sense that others are thinking I should be more settled/doing things more independently by now.
My manager seems patient but also is sending me a lot of info to read/things to action every day & it feels like they might start getting frustrated. I'm asking for their input/asking if things are ok a lot before sending certain emails/correspondence etc as don't want to do it wrong, miss anything, but feeling like I'm constantly interrupting them.
I'm out a lot visiting organisations & people as part of the role which I'm enjoying, am also aware of others who were interviewed (one of them I know) & she's amazing & I can't understand why I got the job over her?
Has anyone been in a similar position?
I feel like I have zero confidence & I had loads before.
Should I be more 'settled' & competant at 8 weeks in?

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DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole · 14/09/2024 20:35

8 weeks is no time really. You'd barely be finished induction activities in some workplaces.

But it's SO hard moving to a whole new context after such a long time in one organisation.. Believe me, I've been there.

One thing to keep in mind, if you can. Trust your skills. This is a new context and you don't have the institutional knowledge or have the information to hand about this specific place BUT you do bring your skills with you. You bring your experience of having done things elsewhere. You bring the skills you needed to do your old job that can apply here. It's a hard thing to do but trust them. Trust that they still apply and trust yourself.

You'll get there 💐

CherryPieSkies · 14/09/2024 22:34

Hey thanks @DanceTheDevilBackIntoHisHole that's so reassuring to read.
I remember feeling as terrified years ago thinking I'd never be able to do what I ended up doing...
Really appreciate your words Flowers

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