This may be a stupid question but I’ve been a civil servant forever and we don’t need to provide references when moving between civil service roles. I’m now considering applying for external roles (I like my team but finding the wider CS culture increasingly soul destroying and it’s taking its toll). Every job I’ve looked wants references providing at application stage. I know they might not contact at that stage, however I’d obviously need to get managers’ consent before naming them, and I’m not yet at the stage where I want to tell them I’m looking elsewhere. I expect it’ll be several months (if not longer) before I get anywhere, as I’m so out of practice, and I don’t like the thought of them knowing I’m racking up the rejections while actively looking to leave. I’d happily tell them if I reached interview stage and ask for references then.
What do others do about this? Clearly it’s really common. Do you all really tell your managers that you are applying for other jobs knowing it could be ages before that comes to fruition? Or is there another way around this that I’m missing?