I just had a meeting with my manager,I'm not due to return until January next year but wanted to sort out days etc so that I can sort childcare (my dh who runs his own busisness will be doing most of it). I'm feeling a bit weird following the meeting. I wanted to do compacted working hours, i.e. work five days in four with a half day a week at home to do paperwork (my dh will have our son on this day). This would mean three and a half days in the office. My manager is unhappy with this as she says that my staff need me there more than that, I manage a team of 7. I'm in bloody meetings all the time and they never see me apaprt from supervision and team meetings anyway, can't see it will make any difference. She also said I couldn't have the Monday off as another manager in my team (whose role I don't cover and who doesn't cover me) has that day off so she can have a long weekend (she doesn't have any caring responsibilities).
She did say she'd be happy if I wanted to do three days a week as a job share, but we need at least four days a week and she said I couldn't do four days as nobody would only want to work a day a week as a job share. I did ask about other roles etc and redeployment (I work for a local authority) but she just said I could apply for stuff internally as it came up. So my questions are;
am I mad to try and do compacted hours at all?
is my manager being unreasonable or am I (perfectly prepared for you to say it is me)?
what do I do now, do I contact my union/HR?
Thank you for your patience and help!