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How to manage a situation at work that I am trying to avoid-

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SmileLady · 07/09/2024 19:48

So long story short, I'm a CP social worker of over 20 years vintage. About 4 years ago I left front line management to become an independent assessor and now I'm a safeguarding lead in a school.

The school is great, and I am really enjoying it. However, my line manager, whom I really like, has overall responsibility for safeguarding across four schools (it's a trust). He has worked his way up from a school office position to becoming the safeguarding lead for the academy trust. All good, I have zero interest in his role. I've done my stint in safeguarding management, and it's not something I want to ever dip my toe into again. However, whilst my role was vacant he was doing this position. He has said to me that he doesn't want to give up the front line safeguarding and he remains the point person for certain year groups. This is his choice, he is my line manager and to be frank I don't care as it means less work for me!

My dilemma is this, he is extremely abrupt with families we support. He bowls in, threatening referral to the local authority, and quotes legislation and policy that has no relevance to the discussions we need to have with families. The school has had a massive upsurge in complaints regarding safeguarding and its all to do with his decision making.

I'll give you an example. This is made up but, you get the gist..

A child comes in and says, Mummy was asleep, and I stepped in dog wee on the floor. The teachers immediately defer to him. He will call the local council and get advice; they will say to explore the situation and then refer in if needed. He will not do anything with this. Then, at about 4pm, he will call the parent, not ask the parent if anything is happening, and just tell them he has taken advice from Cs and the parents understandably get upset, resulting in a complaint. He doesn't listen to them at all. Just ploughs through, I have tried to offer reflective safeguarding supervision (I have additional qualifications in this) but he dismisses this, saying he has been doing the job long enough.

He has been there a long time and is very well-regarded. However, the issue is that other staff members have started to circumvent him and come to me with safeguarding concerns. I find this very uncomfortable as he is my manager. I cannot challenge him as he is very well-regarded and has been in the school for nearly 30 years. He writes all the policy and is basically a safeguarding administrator but has very raw skills in relating to and supporting children and family's.

I don't want to leave as the benefits greatly outweigh going back to front line social work. But I am getting more and more worried about his practice, and I am concerned it looks like I'm undermining him when I am trying very hard not to. what do I do

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dinmin · 07/09/2024 19:50

Are you the DSL? If so they should be coming to you regardless of what he says about year groups etc…

onfiree · 07/09/2024 19:50

Just start making a paper trail and documenting everything, get his shoddy advice in writing

KerryBlues · 07/09/2024 19:52

He can’t be simultaneously very well regarded and avoided by all other staff because of his abrasive approach?

SmileLady · 07/09/2024 20:01

Yes I am the DSL. But whilst my role was vacant he was given a stipend to do my role for I think 2 or 3 days a week on top of his original position. Above the HT are a board and he is on the board as the S/G Lead for the Academy Trust, but he is based in the school I work out of. On a day-to-day basis, I get on very well with him. But the Governors and the Board seem to think he is the S./G Massiah and hang on every word he says. So when I have tried to gently challenge him, he literally goes nowhere. I am no wall flower either. I am very happy to challenge and push though what is needed.But I'm at a loss. I keep telling staff to go back to him.

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