Recently my manager has started asking me about my childcare arrangements. I've been in the job for nearly 5 years and this is the first time this has come up. I've never taken the mickey and always work my hours. Theres never been a time when I've been called upon and unavailable due to childcare. I've made early and late starts on time and before colleagues without school aged kids so its not like theres a history there. My works unaffected which my manager has reiterated. My OH is not willing to pay for any childcare and has told me he finds it too stressful trying to get done on time to pick up every day. Am so exhausted from trying to do it all and the anxiety of the situation that I fall asleep as soon as kids in bed which doesn't help with OH. I feel I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Work not happy with me or OH. Anyone else had a smiliar experience? Any advice? TIA