I need a little advice I've been a mum for 18 years both my daughters have additional needs so I've been a stay at home mum since they where born I've now decided it time to get back into work I've had 2 interviews with a company that I smashed and they offered me the job then they asked for references because I've been out of work for so long my job references are old but I can still get hold of old managers and I have character references but now I'm being told due to ofsted and Insurance my references may not be enough even if my dbs is clear and for the role I have first hand experience with dealing with children with additional needs purely due to a job references being old I may lose out on my dream job any advice welcome