I have recently applied for a new job( internally in my current company) , I've gone through the first stage of application and waiting to hear about interviews etc.
I went for a different job but with the same hiring manager and was unsuccessful at the beginning of the year. He gave me valuable feedback at the time which I have been working on.
The new job came up a little earlier than I would have liked and I'm not 100% ready but feel much better than last time and would be silly not to apply as it doesn't come around d often.
My husband seems really off. Whenever I mention it he doesn't really answer my question or respond to my comments. I've asked him for help getting examples for the interview and he doesn't seem very helpful.
Today I explained that there were 9 candidates and it actually turns out there will be two jobs rather than one, I was quite excited as it doubles my chances. His response was 'well there is a 50/50 if you get it or not due to the people you are up against'
He has made that judgment on me commenting on one particular person who is in the same role as me likely going for it (based purely on assumptions due to her sudden interest in development since the role went up?)
I now feel rubbish and it doesn't feel like he is supporting me, am I being silly or is he just being realistic?