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Feeling rubbish about job hopping...

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ranchababs · 27/06/2024 12:06

Hi all,

Apols in advance for keeping this as vague as possible...

After finally being on the career trajectory I wanted for myself (good salary, sector I enjoyed, role I enjoyed), I was made redundant earlier in the year.

I was offered a role quickly at an adjacent company thanks to a good network of people around me and some good friends that took a chance on me; similar area but different skillset, considerably less money and just a touch away from what I truly enjoyed in my previous role.

Though it's been great to learn new skills, I know I don't want to be in this specific area long term (very KPI driven, not getting to do the bits I love and am good at and progression is based on hitting said KPI's only).

Roles like my previous one are few and far between in my area so I was aiming to bide my time and see what else came up, continuing to learn & grow in the interim.

However, a potential opportunity that aligns with what I want to continue to do with my career has arisen sooner than anticipated (5 months into my current role), back in a salary bracket that I am more comfortable with and aligns better with what I want for my future. It's a smaller start-up business so comes with it's own risks, but also opportunities to make the role my own.

I guess I'm struggling with the guilt that comes with considering leaving the company that 'saved' me post redundancy, and I'm looking for anyone that's been in a similar situation or can offer advice.

My concern is burning bridges, particularly since my current company is well embedded in the sector and I'd likely still engage with them in my new role, because of the area I'm in. And the potential optics of job hopping in a very close knit community in my city.

Any thoughts very much welcome!

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Meadowwild · 02/07/2024 14:46

LT1982 · 02/07/2024 06:01

I'm about to start my 3rd role in under 3 years (after having previous jobs for 7 and 10 years). Life is too short to be unhappy at work so go for the new role!

One short tole on your CV is fine and if you get the new offer then it obviously doesn't bother your new employer

Also, it is pretty normal after redundancy to take a filler role or a short term contract until the right longer term placement is found.

Eskimalita · 02/07/2024 14:58

You’re reading far too much into this. They probably offered you the role knowing you’d move on quickly when something close to your old job came up. Explain the situation to them. They will understand and they will tell you that they’d do the same thing if they were in your shoes.

PloddingAlong21 · 02/07/2024 15:59

I think you need to accept the new role. Be very transparent with your current company about why and they’ll be respectful you were open with them and no bridges need to be burned then.

oatandraisins · 02/07/2024 18:11

I’ve left a job after 5 months because my dream opportunity came up. Wasn’t fun telling my old employer I was leaving so soon but three years later, I haven’t regretted it for a single minute.

Balance the risks of it being a start-up etc, but I wouldn’t let any commitment to your current employer stop you. Just be clear it’s about the opportunity/ alignment to your career ambitions when you tell them - like others said, I doubt they will be that surprised that your current role turns out to be a ‘short term/filler’ role if it wasn’t directly aligned to what you were doing before.

ranchababs · 03/07/2024 11:57

Eskimalita · 02/07/2024 14:58

You’re reading far too much into this. They probably offered you the role knowing you’d move on quickly when something close to your old job came up. Explain the situation to them. They will understand and they will tell you that they’d do the same thing if they were in your shoes.

I legitimately hadn't even thought about this!

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LT1982 · 03/07/2024 20:27

ranchababs · 02/07/2024 09:00

Just wanted to say a HUGE thank you to everyone that put my mind at ease!

I've been invited in to share my ideas for the role next Friday with their directors - I'll keep you posted!

Excellent! Got everything crossed for you

ranchababs · 29/07/2024 11:43

Hi everyone!

I just wanted to update on this thread - I got the job! I had to interview alongside other candidates but ultimately I was offered the role. I'm due to hand my notice in on Wednesday, which should be interesting. But thank you so much for everyone's support; I feel like this is the right move and I'm so excited to start my new job!

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PenguinCounter · 29/07/2024 15:46

Congratulations! Good luck this week. Just remember they've had your skills and experience at well below market value while you've been there so don't feel guilty that they'll have to find someone new.

LT1982 · 03/08/2024 10:12

ranchababs · 29/07/2024 11:43

Hi everyone!

I just wanted to update on this thread - I got the job! I had to interview alongside other candidates but ultimately I was offered the role. I'm due to hand my notice in on Wednesday, which should be interesting. But thank you so much for everyone's support; I feel like this is the right move and I'm so excited to start my new job!

Brilliant news, congratulations! I'm a month into training for a new role after quitting my last completely toxic job after 18 months (and the one before that 11 months in) and it has literally been life changing! Sleeping so much better, mental health much better, don't feel sick every morning at the thought of work. So worth it!!!

ranchababs · 05/08/2024 14:28

LT1982 · 03/08/2024 10:12

Brilliant news, congratulations! I'm a month into training for a new role after quitting my last completely toxic job after 18 months (and the one before that 11 months in) and it has literally been life changing! Sleeping so much better, mental health much better, don't feel sick every morning at the thought of work. So worth it!!!

Oh good for you!! It's incredible the difference the right role can make - not that we should be surprised...if we have to be there for 36+ hours a week, we should at least be able to bloody enjoy it right!?

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