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Return to work problems

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TiredmrsB · 05/06/2024 23:02

So I have recently returned to work after 12 months Mat leave only to find that my role is completely different.

I understand the rules around returning after 6 months and after 12. After 12 you're entitled to your job, same terms and conditions etc as it was unless not reasonably practicable. My role was covered internally and someone else employed (on a permanent basis) to fill the gaps further down the chain, so to speak. In the lead up to my return, I put a request for flexible working to request to drop down to 4 days and explained that I felt I would manage to do my role as it was before going off, within those days, with only a few tasks to be kept by other team members. This was accepted with no discussion or protest from my boss. There was no mention of what I would or wouldn't be doing on my return.

On return, I was informed that I would be doing a completely different set of tasks for a period of time, I have since queried this with my boss and expressed my desire to return to the tasks that I had done pre baby. This was just skirted round, no direct answer. I have also had direct reports taken away from me. The tasks I now do have fewer responsibilities than my role before.

I just dont know what to make of it all to be honest. It has been the worst welcome back to the place I have worked for 10+ years. No desk on return, phone number given to someone else, excluded from nights out, not told about training while on mat leave (training for what is now a huge part of the role, I could have utilised KIT days for), kept out of team meetings... its all just a bit overwhelming. I'm sure many can relate to the feeling of returning to work but that combined with feeling so unwelcome is just not great.

Just looking to see if anyone else has had similar experiences and what you did? Is it a suck it up and get on with it scenario?

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Sunset54 · 07/06/2024 23:58

Sorry to hear this- I had this same situation when I returned after having my first child. All of my responsibilities had been given to other people. At best I was given crappy admin tasks to do for others in the team (after previously being a senior employee leading projects). I had to take minutes in meetings (which I was told had to be checked by someone else before I sent them out- like giving birth had made me lose brain cells and I couldn’t be trusted) and I was given the most basic tasks. At worst, I had nothing at all to do despite me constantly asking for my work, or any work back.

I think it started off as my manager being crap, not having planned for my return and him being very lax about sorting it out. Unfortunately, a very junior role came up in the team and after 6 months and everyone else turning it down they tried to force me to take a demotion.

I raised a grievance (in part because he became very aggressive and his behaviour was totally inappropriate). They “didn’t find in favour” after I refused a verbal apology and wanted it in writing. However, a lot changed. I got my projects back and my return after my next Mat leave was handled a lot better.

Having seen how bad his behaviour could be though left a sour taste and I resigned soon after my second Mat leave after getting head hunted.

Hopefully this is short term for you and they get their act together.

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