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THEY rejected ME

43 replies

Ventingjustbecause · 17/05/2024 14:56

I had what was supposed to be a trial shift for reception at a solictors office this week. As I walked in my heart sank as it was a tatty place above a takeway and it just didn't have a professional feel to it. The people were nice enough but it all seemed a bit low rent. Like imagine the series Better call Saul where he's in the back of a nail salon. Not quite that bad but not set up how I imagined and it felt unprofessional.
The person I was meeting who had (kind of) interviewed me, left me on my own, twice for over 10 mins a time while doing other stuff that they'd arranged knowing I'd be there.

One of the solicitors who is also the director had not remembered a meeting with a client so just hadnt turned up. Also has two other jobs he's doing in different fields which as a lawyer I thought was odd. Like isn't it enough being a solictor?

My actual interview had been online and there was no interest in my CV or work history at all, just me as a person. I didn't mind that and was invited in to meet properly. I was there two hours while I was shown literally everything. The salary was shocking but I could have easily done the job and the hours of work were good. It felt like it was in the bag but I just couldn't actually imagine working there.
I was very torn as to whether I'd take it and I was leaning towards no. My gut instinct was no.

Today I found out that they are "persuing other candidates" . I feel really really bad. I think because of how crappy it was. My pride has taken way more of a battering than if it was a difficult interview for a higher profile job in a professional setting.

Just wanted to vent really.

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/05/2024 15:43

beatrix1234 · 17/05/2024 15:38

Your description of the place is very poor, you were quite shocked at the whole thing and how “beneath you” it felt. Flash news: they sensed that too, and that’s probably why you didn’t make a good candidate.

Edited

At my third legal sec job interview I’m sure my bosses apologised for the stairs (which had that warning gaffer tape on them). I think this was so I didn’t trip downstairs and break my neck on the way out and then try to sue them.

Thing is most lawyers offices are scruffy - some these days especially if part of a chain they decorate them well but others can’t be bothered.

Ventingjustbecause · 17/05/2024 15:43

beatrix1234 · 17/05/2024 15:38

Your description of the place is very poor, you were quite shocked at the whole thing and how “beneath you” it felt. Flash news: they sensed that too, and that’s probably why you didn’t make a good candidate.

Edited

Honestly I know that's how it sounds but it wasn't so much it was beneath me, it was a really low standard for a law office. What I always imagine to be a really good and profitable high profile business. My perception of how solicitors offices are, perhaps is skewed.

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Ventingjustbecause · 17/05/2024 15:46

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/05/2024 15:37

Law firms are brutal especially run down high street ones like this one. So I’d say you’ve dodged a bullet there (ex legal sec).

plus their receptionists (I’ve done this there too) get all the flack and rudeness.

They also tend to pay admin staff badly god knows why it’s hardly kudos working there!

Edited

The pay was abismal. I'd get more cleaning. I did have my reservations about working in a law office. And also I've been burned by a small business before in my 20s. They do what they like with no HR dept etc to go to. It's like it or lump it. But I was getting nowhere job wise and it sounded good. I'm actually glad they rejected me now though. Especially reading what you and others have to say.

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Ventingjustbecause · 17/05/2024 15:48

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/05/2024 15:43

At my third legal sec job interview I’m sure my bosses apologised for the stairs (which had that warning gaffer tape on them). I think this was so I didn’t trip downstairs and break my neck on the way out and then try to sue them.

Thing is most lawyers offices are scruffy - some these days especially if part of a chain they decorate them well but others can’t be bothered.

Edited

The stairs here were not great either. Narrow with carpet tile peeling off etc

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Taurusenergy · 17/05/2024 17:10

They did you a favour sounds like a nightmare of a place. I get why you'd feel miffed tho should of been other way round.

I once got a office job above a mechanics place at 18, the women were all giving me dirty looks while puffing on cigarettes I hated it went home after that shift and never went back lol

KohlaParasaurus · 17/05/2024 17:15

It's possible that they already had someone in mind to whom they intended to offer the job and wasted your time by using you as a makeweight to be able to demonstrate that they had followed appropriate procedures regarding advertising and interviewing. I had that done to me several times in my working life.

Thulpelly · 17/05/2024 17:44

OP, as someone who’s worked for a lot of very small businesses… being able to do the job is only part of it.

Sometimes you get a sense that a candidate isn’t a good match for another reason.
They probably picked up on the fact you weren’t impressed by the place.

DisforDarkChocolate · 17/05/2024 17:50

Did they just want a free shift? Not uncommon in catering.

MrsMoastyToasty · 17/05/2024 18:50

"Trial shift" always rings alarm bells for me. If they want me to work for them, then they can darned well pay me!

7175McGee · 17/05/2024 18:53

Sounds like they just need someone to cover reception for a day and they didn't want to pay for a temp.

curiouslycoy · 17/05/2024 18:57

They have probably had people join and walk out on them as soon as they find something else and didn't want you to use this as a stop gap.

If you're being completely honest, that is what would have happened.

You are not the right fit on your side, nor theirs and they want to hire someone who won't onboard, run down a year and leave.

HollyFern1110 · 17/05/2024 19:02

In my experience (although quite some years ago) corporate law firms have a smart reception area & meeting rooms but all law firms are pretty scruffy behind the scenes.

It sounds like you weren't the right fit for the job, and the job was not the right fit for you. I look at CVs/interview people for a similar position & it is more about the candidate having the right qualities for the job than qualifications or experience.

I hope you find something more suited to your skills soon.

coxesorangepippin · 17/05/2024 19:03

Sounds a bit Better Call Saul really

Bullet dodged, op

AngelaChasesBestLife · 17/05/2024 19:25

God reminds me of when I was starting out and an agency got me an interview as a legal secretary. The salary was £18.5k and it was a high street firm. The day before my interview the
agent phoned me up and told me they'd interviewed another candidate who they liked and who was prepared apparently to accept £10K for the role. They had the nerve to ask me whether I'd accept the same. Their senior partner was on the local council at the time.

Then I had an interview at another one where they told me they only expected to get 12/18mths out of their legal secretaries as they were young women and went off to have babies. They asked me how old I was and if I was married. I was 26 at the time and pointed out this was illegal.

Bulkypeepants · 17/05/2024 20:13

I would hope that a law firm would be sensible enough to hide this, but any chance they may have thought that you would be a candidate for maternity leave any time soon?

(Edit: just realised the post above mine has alluded to this too)

Ventingjustbecause · 17/05/2024 21:39

Bulkypeepants · 17/05/2024 20:13

I would hope that a law firm would be sensible enough to hide this, but any chance they may have thought that you would be a candidate for maternity leave any time soon?

(Edit: just realised the post above mine has alluded to this too)

Edited

No I am well beyond that. In fact if anything they perhaps didn't expect me to be in my mid 40s

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Ventingjustbecause · 17/05/2024 21:42

Thulpelly · 17/05/2024 17:44

OP, as someone who’s worked for a lot of very small businesses… being able to do the job is only part of it.

Sometimes you get a sense that a candidate isn’t a good match for another reason.
They probably picked up on the fact you weren’t impressed by the place.

I think I will avoid small businesses in future. I was hesitant anyway as I've had a problem at a small business in my past. It's cemented that for me.

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MountCaramel · 17/05/2024 21:49

https://www.charityjob.co.uk/jobs?keywords=Administration&UserHasGrantedBrowserGeoLocationPermission=No

Try here for admin jobs in the charity sector, they're usually flexible

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