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Between a rock and a hard place

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sajamor · 27/04/2024 16:57

I started working at home for an energy company six months ago. My probation was due to finish a couple of weeks back but it's been extended until June.

This is partly because there wasn't a lot of support available to me the first month but it's also because I've struggled with the role, too. It's very complicated with so much to remember and I've had very little time or energy to revise it. The work that gets generated by calls has often had me working an extra 2 hours a night. Then my housework needs doing and I need to have a social life/downtime.

It then becomes a bit of a vicious circle; the more extra work I do the less I can do the scheduled work. Sometimes colleagues and customers don't help, either. When I ask advice on the team's online forum sometimes the responses come off a bit blunt and condescending although I know they're not meant as such.

I also know customers aren't having a go at me personally when they start getting irate but it does get depressing. Then sometimes they are aggressive, make me feel put on the spot and it flusters me all the more.

I do keep feeling frustrated with myself and inadequate compared to other people - there are two newer ones in my team who I think are already doing better than me. Wednesday to Friday it was just hell and I don't think my mental health can take much more. But then I'm nearly 50, I know I've not fulfilled nearly as much potential as I could or should have had and I don't have any other earning options at the moment.

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workoholic · 28/04/2024 00:18

Sounds like it's not bringing much benefit to your life - might be time to find something else that aligns with what you want? Why did your probation get extended for so long?

Scarletttulips · 28/04/2024 00:22

When we’re you told your probation was extended?

Are there any manuals you can read? Sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward - you and your training need to be front and centre. Log off on time and read up on the manuals - people get short when they don’t know the answers either.

Unexpectedconsequences · 28/04/2024 16:36

@sajamor is it possible to work in the office for a few days? If you have more experienced colleagues sitting next to you it is easier to ask a quick question.

Ask your manager for a colleague to coach you.

sajamor · 28/04/2024 18:11

It was extended by 2 months partly to give me more time for getting to grips with the role and partly because the team was a bit short staffed to lend support when I first joined them.

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sajamor · 28/04/2024 18:12

I got told about a month ago it was being extended for 2 months from official end date of 11 April.

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Startingagainandagain · 28/04/2024 18:18

Honestly I would use these 2 months to find a new job.

It just does not sound like a right fit and you don't want a job where you routinely have to do additional, unpaid hours.

Allwelcone · 30/04/2024 20:42

I had a job like this, manager wd leave on time and swan past me working extra, whilst giving me more clients to see, it was a downward spiral.

I left and now work for somewhere I really enjoy with a great team.
When you know you fit it's a great feeling.

workoholic · 01/05/2024 21:17

Startingagainandagain · 28/04/2024 18:18

Honestly I would use these 2 months to find a new job.

It just does not sound like a right fit and you don't want a job where you routinely have to do additional, unpaid hours.

agree with this

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