I have seen a role advertised for a different team in my organisation. Lots of transferable skills and I’m genuinely excited about it. It would be a promotion in seniority and there’s no opportunity in my current team so all seems like I should go for it.
However, while most managers would say “it’s a great opportunity I’m so happy for you” mine won’t. Another colleague left and when they handed in their notice he said “I’m so pissed off and disappointed” even though it was a great promotion in a sister organisation. Now that’s fine if you’re leaving, but if I don’t get it, because it’s internal he’ll almost certainly find out about it, which will be embarrassing (if I don’t get it) and damage the trust. Urgh, it’s almost deterring me but I really do want the job. I wasn’t looking and it’s surprising me how excited I am. I just have to do it and suck up the consequences don’t I?