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20 weeks pregnant ans struggling

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Twinklydreamer22 · 01/04/2024 18:35

I'm currently 20 weeks, it's my 2nd pregnancy and I'm struggling with juggling work and home life.

My first pregnancy was a breeze and I sailed through, working up until the day prior to giving birth.

This time round I have a different job which has more responsibility. Staffing issues have increased work load and pressure at work recrntly and I've found I'm not coping as well as I usually would.

Recently I've found myself feeling overwhelmed from juggling work and then coming home and being mum. I use all my energy at work to just get through the day that by the time I come home I'm absolutley exhausted and I then feel guilty. This has led to me feeling frustrated at work and tearful at times.

I have been having frequent headaches which I think are tension/stress headaches and I'm exhausted all the time despite how much sleep I'm getting. I also had pre-eclampsia in my last pregnancy so I'm now feeling worried about how the stress could be impacting baby.

I guess I'm just looking for some reassurance/advice from anyone who is in or has been in this situation. My family have suggested I go off work sick to try and rest and relax and to make contact with GP/midwife this week. I feel so conflicted as I know health of myself and my baby comes first. Any help/advice appreciated

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LadyKenya · 01/04/2024 18:42

I would suggest taking your family's advice OP. Start by talking to your GP.

Twinklydreamer22 · 01/04/2024 18:53

LadyKenya · 01/04/2024 18:42

I would suggest taking your family's advice OP. Start by talking to your GP.

I know deep down its the right thing to do for my health and babys health. I think navigating it with work and trying to explain why I'm calling in is stressing me out more now 😅 x

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cpat122 · 01/04/2024 20:24

It's insane what's expected of women in pregnancy. Definitely see your gp and do what's best for you. You could also request an iron test if the exhaustion is that bad, it may be low.

Twinklydreamer22 · 01/04/2024 21:48

cpat122 · 01/04/2024 20:24

It's insane what's expected of women in pregnancy. Definitely see your gp and do what's best for you. You could also request an iron test if the exhaustion is that bad, it may be low.

Very frustrating and disheartening when you feel unsupported. Every pregnancy is different and I'm finding this one rough ans it could definitely be made a little easier if I was better supported at work

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