Not sure if this should be on the work board or the perimenopause one, given my age.
I’m 43. I’ve always been anxious but the last couple of years it has been really off the scale. Have tried CBT which didn’t really do much. It coincided with a difficult period at work and a really toxic, bullying boss. I was in a senior role and have always struggled with imposter syndrome. Boss gradually clawed away at my confidence and I left to take a more junior role at another company, thinking I would get my confidence back and then step up again.
The new job is considerably less demanding than the old one, and I have far less responsibility (which I actually regret, but that’s another story). However, I am absolutely riddled with self-doubt on a daily basis. I find myself getting extremely anxious about doing really quite basic things that I wouldn’t have thought twice about 10 years ago. I also find myself making basic errors, which in turn makes me feel even more anxious and shit about myself. It really feeds the imposter syndrome and now I find myself questioning whether my whole career is a fraud.
Where has the confident and ambitious 30-something woman gone? How do I find my way back?
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Anxiety, self-doubt and the workplace. Maybe also peri?
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AllAdrift · 25/03/2024 17:38
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