DH is a self employed plumber and has been doing it since he was 17/18, took him a good 7-8 years to want to go out on his own and build up client base/trust but he is never short of work and usually has his work booked 9 months to a year ahead with slight wiggle room. He prefers doing personal high spec bathrooms and luckily is in such demand he can pick and choose the jobs he takes. He is gas trained (does it every couple of years) but doesn’t actively choose that kind of work.
He earns 45k ish. We are in the South. Since we’ve had children he never works weekends and is usually home by 4.30 unless something unexpected crops up. Some days he finishes early and does the school run. He has general flexibility being self employed so if the kids are poorly, or me, he can take the time off, but he doesn’t get paid and he has to juggle things a bit.
He is happy in his work and it isn’t mentally taxing at all for him. He’s got lots of connections in other trades from his years in apprenticeship and working for others, he trusts them and they support each other; this network is invaluable and as your DH will be a newcomer to a trade he may struggle initially to gain that.
However, he has been doing this a long time now, he is in his thirties and has started to consider what else he could retrain as because he physically cannot do it forever. He has already had knee surgery in his twenties! It’s physically very demanding. They make good money for tradies but it takes it out of them
so many plumbers retire early or train someone to take on their business.
A bit like your DH, mine is starting to think what else he could do. His lifelong dream was to be a vet and I fully support him doing that but he doesn’t want to spend years going to university to then only do his new career for about a decade before retiring 😂 He is so clever though, physically and mentally capable I don’t for a minute think he couldn’t do it if he wanted to.
We are debating him going part time and me retraining once our littlest starts school and being the main earner (I currently only do two days in a job I hate…) It’s tricky, we are all working for so long these days I actually think it’s perfectly natural to see your decades left in work stretching ahead and thinking you want to change whilst you’re still young enough to! Good luck to your DH hope he achieves his goals!