I'm looking for some support / hand hold.
I was promoted to Manager during maternity leave. Since I was back I had several health issues and my DC kept falling sick at the nursery which impacted my life and especially work. Due to series of events I'm now standing at the cusp of being either fired with pay for notice period or take a severance package and leave respectfully.
I'm at a Big4. I've been offered 4 months pay as well as garden leave to cover my notice period.
I have asked for a demotion and lower salary (to keep inflow of salary to cover mortgage payments) but that's not an option. I'm very disheartened.