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Working with someone who has a brain injury

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SilentSteps12 · 27/02/2024 19:53

Hi folks. I would like to hear from people who have had experience working alongside people with a brain injury and how they managed to keep their calm when things are not working out great.
I am an extremely diligent worker and I always take the initiative when taking on several tasks. I tend to just crack on with the job and I really don't like it when other people at work do not show any interest in their role as a paid employee and just tend to leave others to do the rest of the job that they are supposed to share. Im in my late 20's and I have ADHD. I had a very difficult time today working with someone in her 30s with a brain injury. This person has been working for the company for over a year and she is due to leave in the next couple of weeks. However, I will be working with her until she leaves and I need some tips on how to work alongside someone who clearly prefers to chat rather than work. Im incredibly fast when working and I'm always thinking one step ahead and this morning, I couldn't cope with how incredibly slow she was at keeping up with things. I was practically doing her job for her while she casually talked with her friend and when she noticed that I was not the least bit pleased with how she was performing (it was a very incredibly busy day at the hotel), she walked out and had asked her friend (who had other jobs to do) to take over. I told her friend to go back to her spot because it was not her responsibility to take on someone else's job and I decided to just crack on with what needed doing. None of us saw her until half an hour later when everything had died down and she still continued to talk and take her time completing her tasks. I told my manager about her attitude and how she behaved this morning and he said that he will speak to her about it. She continued to work incredibly slowly all throughout the day and it was clear that she was in a bad mood with me. I also overheard her gossiping about how I treated her 'horribly' to her mates at work. I've just ignored it since I wont be seeing her after two weeks. Question is, how do I continue to work with her for the time being?

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sanferryanne · 27/02/2024 19:56

For two weeks? I'd suck it up ago be honest

sanferryanne · 27/02/2024 19:56

To be honest

Flopsythebunny · 27/02/2024 20:19

You can start by stopping bullying her. She just get on with your own job and leave your manager to manage her

Maddy70 · 27/02/2024 20:26

Flopsythebunny · 27/02/2024 20:19

You can start by stopping bullying her. She just get on with your own job and leave your manager to manage her

This

freezefade · 27/02/2024 20:26

Is this a reverse?

ArchetypalBusyMum · 27/02/2024 20:28

She sounds annoying but it's only two weeks. Just grey rock her (Google it) and lose yourself in your work.

Oreosareawful · 27/02/2024 20:28

stay in your lane and leave the poor woman alone!

WhoaJayShettybambalam · 27/02/2024 20:32

Do you think that it is her brain injury that causes her to talk to colleagues and work slowly or are you just a massive twat?

DNAHOY · 27/02/2024 20:32

Jobsworth

DorothyZ · 27/02/2024 20:34

Not much surprises me anymore on here but this thread has managed.

Isthisexpected · 27/02/2024 20:34

I don't see how her brain injury is at all relevant here. Personally I would not do anything about any colleague who was leaving and spending a lot of time chatting. But if I did, it would be a quiet word about it to their manager if it was impacting on my workload etc significantly. So nothing beyond what you've already done is appropriate.

lotsofpeoplenametheirswords · 27/02/2024 20:36

So you're not her manager? Then why do you get off on acting like it? What's her supposed 'brain injury' got to do with anything? What's her being in her 30s and you in your 20s got to do with anything? I can hear you playing your trumpet from where I am and it's a bit out of tune. Stay in your lane.

Mouthfulofquiz · 27/02/2024 20:37

If your employer is happy with the pace of work she is working at, do yourself a favour and slow down and be more tolerant.

Toddlerteaplease · 27/02/2024 20:39

You may be very fast, but are you doing a good job? She might be doing a better job because she's more thorough. I agree that you are bullying her.

MyLadyTheKingsMother · 27/02/2024 20:46

Honestly, you sound like the biggest arsehole bully.

I'd have told you to go fuck yourself if I only had two weeks left.

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