So I dunno what to think of this....and would like some feedback. I live in the U.S and had to change jobs when I got married. This new job is very....clique like. I am a pretty social person and have tried engaging and such but things got a little off when we got a group message about a goodbye dinner for one of the girls who is leaving (left) it was addressed to everyone so i responded and was like "so is this the place?" With the address. I am not from this area so wanted to make sure I knew where it was. So I got a response back with "yeah sure lol" I just didn't say anything else and no one said anything else to me about it. I thought it was kind of a snarky reply.....I pretty much just stayed away from all the other comments about the farewell dinner because it was kind of awkward at that point. But since then My comments in our group chat have basically gone ignored. I am also referring to work related comments. Sometimes they will react to my comments but really no one responds responds and this is a problem because it's obviously affecting my ability to do my job......I asked my husband if he thinks I should complain to HR he said we will talk about it at home. I dunno if I am overreacting or not. But I do not want to work at a place with so much tension. I understand that not everyone can be friends but it is frustrating because my friends are several hours away and as is My family. So all I've got here is my husband. Which he is the greatest but female friendships are different I just feel ostracized and lonely. 😞