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Former colleague has asked me for a reference

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WetBandits · 10/01/2024 14:02

As above, I’ve been asked by a former colleague to provide a reference (I left that ward 2 years ago and worked with her for 2 years before that), I was senior to her but not her manager. We worked closely and I have no issues providing a strong reference for her as she was reliable and trustworthy, and her standard of care was always excellent.

Can I provide a reference for her even though I wasn’t her manager? The current ward manager is quite a difficult person so I imagine that’s why she hasn’t approached her.

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hellojelly · 10/01/2024 14:06

All references in my workplace must be passed to HR, rather than to managers in the first instance. I imagine you could be a personal referee but I'd check whether your workplace allows managers to complete their own professional references.

WetBandits · 10/01/2024 14:08

hellojelly · 10/01/2024 14:06

All references in my workplace must be passed to HR, rather than to managers in the first instance. I imagine you could be a personal referee but I'd check whether your workplace allows managers to complete their own professional references.

I don’t work there anymore, I’m at a different Trust now. She still works there.

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Thejackrussellsrule · 10/01/2024 14:14

It would be a personal reference rather than a professional one, I've just done this for a person who is a friend and former colleague.

All2Well · 10/01/2024 14:17

I am a lecturer. My line manager changed so many times that I never met him. The head of the course that I taught on was incompetent and newish to the role. I provided the details of the next most senior member of staff in my department as my professional reference and it was never once called into question and I was successfully promoted at another university.

I doubt there is any issue at all.

hellojelly · 10/01/2024 14:18

WetBandits · 10/01/2024 14:08

I don’t work there anymore, I’m at a different Trust now. She still works there.

Is the request for a personal or professional referee? Assuming you're still NHS I'd be checking with them regardless of being in a different trust.

Silverbirchtwo · 10/01/2024 14:23

You are only saying what you know, as long as you are truthful and say what your relative working positions were, I don't see anything wrong. How valuable/relevant they think your reference is, will be up to the people employing them. Keep a signed dated copy, just in case of any comeback.

Your not going to be doing it on headed paper so it should be obvious it's not an official reference.

Beautiful3 · 10/01/2024 14:51

You can do a personal reference but not a workbased one, as those have to go through HR.

FirstFallopians · 10/01/2024 15:10

Are you still with the NHS?

Just check if there’s a policy on who can and can’t provide references. I used to work for a large bank, and a team leader colleague wrote a reference for one of his team when he found a new role. Management were not permitted to provide references, they could only be produced by HR.

Probably would’ve gone unnoticed if the ex-employee hadn’t then saved the reference and produced it as a character reference at a court appearance a few months later. The employer found out, colleague nearly lost his job and was demoted.

SingsongSu · 10/01/2024 15:14

I’ve done similar before when I’ve been asked by former colleague. I no longer worked at the school so explained I didn’t have access to personnel files but was happy to give a character reference.

Cheeesus · 10/01/2024 15:16

In response to
“Beautiful3 · Today 14:51

You can do a personal reference but not a workbased one, as those have to go through HR.”

Not in my NHS board they don’t.

ACynicalDad · 12/03/2024 09:37

I would tell her that the opening line will be something like although I was never her line manager I was senior and worked with her for 2 years. That way if she is trying to pull the wool over someone's eyes it's right there. Most places want two referees, only one needs to be current/most recent employer.

All2Well · 12/03/2024 10:42

ACynicalDad · 12/03/2024 09:37

I would tell her that the opening line will be something like although I was never her line manager I was senior and worked with her for 2 years. That way if she is trying to pull the wool over someone's eyes it's right there. Most places want two referees, only one needs to be current/most recent employer.

It's over two months ago now since OP was asked for a reference @ACynicalDad

I'd imagine it's sorted.

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