Hi there, I have been off work for the last six weeks with anxiety and depression, all linked to work related stress and then perimenopausal symptoms brought it all to a head. I have managed to get some HRT and thank goodness it’s working and I feel so much better in myself in the last two weeks. But I don’t think anything is going to change at my employers due to various reasons. Therefore in the last week or so I have been applying for new jobs and made it through to interview stage, despite feeling like a nervous wreck I did surprisingly well in the interview, and they’re now inviting me back to meet the team and I think they may offer me the job. Well, I hope they will!!!! This job is a lot less stressful so it’s perfect for me.
My worry is that I have been signed off from work until January, so when they ask how soon I can have my notice in, I don’t really know what to tell them because I’m not sure what my options are. They will obviously want somebody to start with them as soon as possible, as the person who is leaving, goes at the end of December - so the sooner I hand my notice in the better. I really don’t want to fib and say I’m on annual leave until January, but then I don’t want to over share my situation either. I feel that I could get a fit for work note, go back on a phased return to my current employer, do part time and muddle through therefore handing in my notice in next week. I’ve worked for the same company for a long time so I really don’t want to let them down (although I already feel like I am by being off work) so I don’t want to send them an email resigning whilst I’m already off sick. Or I could take the full sick note to ensure a full recovery, return in January and hand in my notice then. But, then my new employer would have to wait longer for me to join them. They will also want a reference from my employer and I do not want HRto disclose this period of sick leave at the same time of my going to them for a job. If that makes sense.
Has anyone got any advice please or been in this situ before?
thanks