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Been offered a job

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NotSureILikeThisOne · 02/11/2023 17:59

But I don’t know what to do.

I currently work in a school but dislike what I do and there is not much scope to improve it. I’ve worked there about 2 years. While it is not an enjoyable job, there are advantages - it’s term time only, within walking distance from home and my child goes there (Y10). My plan was to stay until my child finishes their GCSEs, which I can do knowing I have a week off every six weeks or so.

I had an interview earlier this week for a role in a nursery, I found out today that I have been offered the job but I’m struggling to feel enthusiastic about it. It is a newish role and the employer talked lots about the scope of the role for progression for the right person but very little about the day to day requirements. I also feel that even after I was fully trained, the management would be reluctant to hand over responsibility for tasks that would come under my job role. There were some other niggles that I can’t put my finger on.

I didn’t come out if the interview thinking I would be disappointed if I didn’t get the job. It is more money but also more hours, an extra 3 hours per week and 52 weeks (and the minimum holiday entitlement) instead of my current 39 weeks. I would be approx £250 a month better off but think I would need to look a getting a cleaner/someone to iron - I think I need to do this anyway as DH is useless at house stuff and I can’t fit everything in myself.

I have never turned down a job before but my gut is telling me that I need to. DH thinks I should accept but he’s not the one that has to fit everything in (I do all the shopping/cooking/washing & ironing - he does some cleaning but also works away a lot which is why I do the most).

Sorry, that was a lot longer than I expected it to be!

Long story short - should I take the new job?

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user50and · 02/11/2023 18:02

No you shouldn't, not unless you're 100% sure. I think your plan to stay where you are until your DC leaves is a good one..

Pumpy001 · 02/11/2023 18:06

No, nurseries are very full on work and 52 weeks a year is relentless. 39 weeks only is a great deal

Caravaggiouch · 02/11/2023 18:08

I wouldn’t stay in a job I didn’t really like just for term time only for a year 10 child. If they were a lot younger I can see that it’s a strong benefit but with a 14/15 year old not so much.

Riverstep · 02/11/2023 18:09

No, because your gut is telling you not too.

Caravaggiouch · 02/11/2023 18:09

That said, you don’t sound too keen on the other option either. Maybe keep looking for something full time which you are really enthusiastic about?

Popskipiekin · 02/11/2023 18:18

That £250 will go very quickly on a cleaner … and more food for work lunches. Don’t do it.

NotSureILikeThisOne · 03/11/2023 10:56

Thank you for your replies.

We talked about it as a family last night, DC said they would prefer if I was still around in the holidays for now.

I also spent a bit of time comparing salaries, but this morning I have received an email with my new pay award. If I look at the 52 week equivalent of both roles, there is a £27 per year increase in the new role.

I am just going to make the phone call to decline the offer and back to the original plan of sticking out my current job until DC leaves the school unless something amazing turns up.

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