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Sleeping through work emails

116 replies

szympli · 12/10/2023 07:58

If a more senior colleague was working on a project and you got asked to help on it… you worked 9am-11:30pm after waking up at 6am for school run. The senior colleague told you to go home. 45 minute journey home. You get into bed at 12:30 and fall fast asleep.

Woke up at 6am for school run to a barrage of missed emails about the work I did. Colleague would have been able to figure it out but obviously would take time. Some of the stuff I told him before I left. I work in finance btw.
Will I be in trouble for missing the emails?

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ColleenDonaghy · 12/10/2023 09:46

Depends on the industry. I have a friend who is a solicitor working in M&A and when she has a deal on there is a 24 hour expectation, especially because different time zones can be involved.

That's not to say I think that's in any way a good thing, but it is unfortunately the reality in some fields.

FloydPepper · 12/10/2023 10:10

Also finance here and senior. I sometimes work stupid hours and send mails with questions at stupid times but I’ve made it clear to my team that I don’t expect them to look at them out of hours. It’s more a case of me sending things while they’re in my head

theres no way anyone would get in trouble for not responding out of hours. In fact if they did I’d be very likely to tell them to stop working.

so no. If there’s an expectation you should have responded that’s totally unfair

FloydPepper · 12/10/2023 10:12

And also, if you’d worked long days to get something done (it happens and is sometimes needed) then I’d be very clear I’d expect you to take that time back pretty soon. Some early finishes or late starts.

TheBerry · 12/10/2023 11:53

Why would you be in trouble for this? That obviously makes no sense. Unless you colleague is deranged, you won’t be in trouble.

He probably sent you the emails so you’d have them the next day to help with. I doubt he was expecting you’d be responding to them overnight.

At least, that’s what I would be assuming until there was any evidence to the contrary.

Comefromaway · 12/10/2023 12:27

You can't opt out of the 11 hour break between shifts, only the 48 hour working week.

roarrfeckingroar · 12/10/2023 12:29

FerretFarago · 12/10/2023 08:05

Woking time law you need a minimum 11 hours off between shifts, so if you finished at 11.30 pm should not start work until 12.30 pm next day (if not opted out)

😂😂😂😂😂 meanwhile I the private sector

SecondUsername4me · 12/10/2023 12:32

roarrfeckingroar · 12/10/2023 12:29

😂😂😂😂😂 meanwhile I the private sector

And in hotels!

roarrfeckingroar · 12/10/2023 12:35

@SecondUsername4me and restaurants! And most industries

Chewbecca · 12/10/2023 12:37

Well it is fine for the person to send the emails whilst they are working. It's fine for you to reply when you are working.

What's not fine is for you to be berated for not working at 6am - did that occur or not?

SylvieLaufeydottir · 12/10/2023 12:44

roarrfeckingroar · 12/10/2023 12:29

😂😂😂😂😂 meanwhile I the private sector

I am also finding a great deal of amusement imagining the people I've known in m&a/private equity/corporate finance on £300k+ pulling this one.

Notaggain · 12/10/2023 13:35

Comefromaway · 12/10/2023 12:27

You can't opt out of the 11 hour break between shifts, only the 48 hour working week.

Yes you can.

Many people opt out of the 11 hour break between shifts. I did, as did all my nhs nursing colleagues. Regular shift pattern 13.30 - 21.30, then back in the next morning 07.30 - 15.30. 10 hours between shifts.

prh47bridge · 12/10/2023 13:41

There is some confusion about opt outs on this thread. You can't opt out of the requirement for a minimum of 11 hours uninterrupted rest between finishing work one day and starting work the next. You can opt out of the maximum of 48 hours per week, but the rest of the Working Time Regulations still apply. However, the 11 hours can be breached if necessary, provided it does not happen regularly and the employee gets compensatory rest, i.e. gets their rest later or in a different way.

@szympli If you get into trouble for this, you need to leave. There is no way your employer should expect you to answer emails overnight after working a 14.5-hour day.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 12/10/2023 13:47

I am also finding a great deal of amusement imagining the people I've known in m&a/private equity/corporate finance on £300k+ pulling this one

That's why they're paid what they're paid, after all.

wildwestpioneer · 12/10/2023 13:54

I wouldn't get in trouble no, but then again if I'd worked until 11.30 the night before I'd not been expected to be in the office at the normal time the next day

Comefromaway · 12/10/2023 14:00

Notaggain · 12/10/2023 13:35

Yes you can.

Many people opt out of the 11 hour break between shifts. I did, as did all my nhs nursing colleagues. Regular shift pattern 13.30 - 21.30, then back in the next morning 07.30 - 15.30. 10 hours between shifts.

That was illegal then and absolutely should not happen except, as pointed out by prh for a genuine emergency/unusual situation. It should not be part of a regular shift pattern.

Comefromaway · 12/10/2023 14:02

There are some specific exemptions for emergency services & hospital workers

SylvieLaufeydottir · 12/10/2023 14:30

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 12/10/2023 13:47

I am also finding a great deal of amusement imagining the people I've known in m&a/private equity/corporate finance on £300k+ pulling this one

That's why they're paid what they're paid, after all.

Exactly.

People in the field don't look down on those who step back to less intense jobs or wash out of the area altogether, IME. Human bodies have limits and few people can keep that kind of thing up forever. But if you're in that field, you know what the deal is, and you are paid to roll with it. If you don't like that, you can leave the job. No problem. But you can't change the job.

Middlelanehogger · 12/10/2023 15:10

OP hasn't actually said if they were berated for it tbh. Was she?

novalia89 · 12/10/2023 17:03

Foreverdecorating · 12/10/2023 08:50

Setting aside the ridiculously long working hours I don't see an issue with the emails. Surely emails are a great replacement for calls in that the sender can send them whenever they like day or night, and the receiver can then read them at a time that suits? Why are people appalled as someone sending emails during the night? I work for an international company so emails enter my inbox at all times of day and night and I deal with them when I am working.

I think this. We have people who send weekend email, late night or early morning emails. That’s because the sender is working at those times. They don’t expect a response there and then, they are left for when the receiver is working.

WrongSwanson · 12/10/2023 18:28

roarrfeckingroar · 12/10/2023 12:29

😂😂😂😂😂 meanwhile I the private sector

And in senior roles in public sector tbh, we sometimes do crazy hours. I can't imagine even clocking that I'd missed a break.

You accept that to progress at a senior level you must need to get the job done and if an emergency hits you don't go downing tools because the hours are up and you are entitled to a rest break. Way to kill a career!!

Of course overall people should look after their well being, but many senior roles just aren't going to neatly fit into 9-5

minipie · 12/10/2023 18:30

We have people who send weekend email, late night or early morning emails. That’s because the sender is working at those times. They don’t expect a response there and then, they are left for when the receiver is working

I worked with a law firm whose email footer said exactly this - that their flexible working pattern might mean weirdly timed emails but no response was expected at that time. Sensible.

WrongSwanson · 12/10/2023 18:32

minipie · 12/10/2023 18:30

We have people who send weekend email, late night or early morning emails. That’s because the sender is working at those times. They don’t expect a response there and then, they are left for when the receiver is working

I worked with a law firm whose email footer said exactly this - that their flexible working pattern might mean weirdly timed emails but no response was expected at that time. Sensible.

When I meet any new member of my department for their induction I tell them that I might email them late at night /over the weekend but that doesn't mean I expect them to be working then too.

I also try and remember to set a time delay when sending emails outside office hours but sometimes I do forget

SylvieLaufeydottir · 12/10/2023 18:34

I've (nearly) always worked in global companies, so it's normal for Aussie or Californian colleagues to be emailing me in the wee hours, UK time. Email is an asynchronous medium by design.

Cola2023 · 13/10/2023 00:26

szympli · 12/10/2023 07:58

If a more senior colleague was working on a project and you got asked to help on it… you worked 9am-11:30pm after waking up at 6am for school run. The senior colleague told you to go home. 45 minute journey home. You get into bed at 12:30 and fall fast asleep.

Woke up at 6am for school run to a barrage of missed emails about the work I did. Colleague would have been able to figure it out but obviously would take time. Some of the stuff I told him before I left. I work in finance btw.
Will I be in trouble for missing the emails?

Knew you worked in finance before the last line.

Same.

Cola2023 · 13/10/2023 00:27

WrongSwanson · 12/10/2023 08:08

Many professions are opted out though .

Every banking contract I've ever done is automatically opted out.

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