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Being ghosted by internal recruiters?

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HipHipWhoRay · 27/07/2023 10:09

Am mulling over a situation that has happened a couple of times recently to my husband, and not sure what to make of it.

He’s in a reasonably senior position for tech company, runs a department of 25-40 people, fast moving/innovative projects etc. He’s been at company for about 5 years and thinking of pastures new. He gets messaged by internal recruiters via LinkedIn ‘to chat’ about potential position somewhere, usually for very large organisations. Often says that the conversation goes well, and they will usually say that they’ll be in touch (sometimes with a specific day), or that will fix them up to speak with person X,Y etc. He is fully aware that these are often preliminary chats (although sometimes have been 2nd/3rd round convos, where the senior person has said HR will be in touch next week etc), and then nothing. If he contacts them a week later to ask, no reply. It’s a different scenario to the job application without feedback. He’s not even really after feedback, although would be preferable, just whether the process is progressing or they’ve found someone else etc.

He laughs that it’s total bullshit, all these companies talking about their values, but then ghosting people that they’ve often headhunted and spent half an hour or more talking to. He often says he wouldn’t want to work for orgs that think this was ok. But it’s happened a couple of times this year, and didn’t used to happen. Is this now a thing, is it him, not sure what to think?

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HundredMilesAnHour · 27/07/2023 10:53

It can/could be a variety of reasons. The role doesn't exist any more or is put on hold or might be changing. They talk to a much more suitable candidate. The feedback from HR / whoever is that they're not interested.

Internal recruiters get it wrong sometimes. They're also usually very busy (so don't expect them to get back to you if they've lost interest) and some of them are just plain incompetent.

HipHipWhoRay · 27/07/2023 17:46

Thanks, interesting insight. I find it just a bit baffling that you could approach someone, have a chat, say you’ll be in touch and then not. It’s just not a way I’d work out of integrity (also knowing they might not be right for the current post but could be for the next one etc), but you’re probably right that it’s a mix of pressure, deadlines and sometimes incompetence

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daisychain01 · 27/07/2023 20:09

They're probably having chats with numerous people, it's a numbers game, they find the ideal match and then everyone else is history. A waste of time for the candidate but they couldn't care less.

Conniethecatapillar · 27/07/2023 21:22

It's happened to me before and I find recruitment consultants the most unprofessional and inauthentic people to deal with. They are up there with the worst of the worst for me and I try to avoid them at all costs.

FatAgainItsLettuceTime · 27/07/2023 21:28

Every time I post anything LinkedIn I get 6 or more recruiters asking to 'connect' and sending me messages about exciting roles they have that would be perfect for me.

It's all a sales pitch, they need to have as many 'warm contacts' on the books as possible so that IF a role comes in, they have a pool of potentials they can try to get interested.

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