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Job after 20 years' child-rearing..?!

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Mondiale · 16/07/2023 21:37

I've name-changed for this so that I can be completely honest.

I'm 43, and have spent the last 21 years raising my children (more than five of them). Now my youngest (and last) is getting past the baby stage, I'm finally able to start thinking about returning to the world of work.

(I say 'returning'; after graduating with a 2:1 from a London RG uni, I worked for a year before getting married and having my first child. This was editing/marketing/admin for a small trade publishing company.)

My degree was in English Language and Literature. 3 As at A-level, in English, History & Communication Studies (sort of a psychology/sociology/media-type subject).

Strengths:

Use of language. I'm articulate, can speak clearly and confidently, high level of comprehension, good at writing clear prose, and explaining complex concepts in easy-to-understand language.

Emotional intelligence. This is also a weakness, as I am extremely empathic.

Good at reading people's emotions, active listening, responding in an appropriate register.

Weaknesses:

Possibly over-empathic (though I think my hide is hardening as I get older).

Sensitive to criticism, due to...

Lack of confidence.

Fairly basic IT competence (Word, Excel, that's about it...)

Lack of experience and employment history.

My IQ is 142 (1% of the population), so theoretically I know I should be able to work at a fairly high level - but what that actually translates to in reality is what I'm struggling with!

I'd be very grateful for any ideas as to possible sectors of work/types of job/ideas/tips/encouragement. I've browsed this board quite a bit, but I feel that my personal situation is a bit unusual, so isn't discussed often.

OP posts:
Runaround50 · 17/07/2023 18:45

@WineWithAView that sounds great. Which department do you now work for? What kinds of questions did they ask you at interview? Thanks 😊

WineWithAView · 17/07/2023 20:41

Runaround50 · 17/07/2023 18:45

@WineWithAView that sounds great. Which department do you now work for? What kinds of questions did they ask you at interview? Thanks 😊

I'm with the Home Office. The interview questions were behavioural competency type questions: tell us about a time you communicated effectively... That type of thing.

They use something called 'Success Profiles'. And there's lots of guidance/advice around on how to approach the application/interview.

Runaround50 · 17/07/2023 20:56

@WineWithAView thanks very much, that's most helpful.

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