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Did I sell myself short? Can you help?

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latteandtoastie · 17/06/2023 10:27

Hi everyone - first time poster here, I hope you can help.

Short back story; I had been HR Manager since 2018 at my company (after being promoted from Senior HR Officer) in a full-time capacity until had my first baby April 2020. I went back to work after the year but part-time in the HR Manager role. I really struggled fitting five days work into three days and it was a hard slog for a year with lots of overtime etc.

I became pregnant with my second in child and I took the decision to request to step down when I returned (not due to return until Summer 2023) to either a Senior HR officer or a HR Officer, which, to cut a long story short, was agreed for me to go back as a HR Officer. I didn't push to go back to my original role as the senior as I was more keen on getting them to say yes to me stepping down (I tend to not always put myself first!) This was all signed and sealed in July last year as it enable my company to go ahead an appoint a permanent HR Manager to replace me when I went on maternity leave. At the time, this felt like the right decision and to some extent still does, I could not carry out that high level position on just three days per week.

However, fast forward to now and I have been having regrets that I didn't push to go back to the Senior HR role. Not for the money (although last year things were substantially easier finance wise), but because of the fact that I worked extremely hard to get the promotion in the first place and I still want to be involved in more complex HR issues (amongst other things). I was just a bit too eager to get them to say yes to me stepping down.

I would like to ask if they would be able to reconsider me returning as the senior. Has anyone got any advice on how I should (or even if I should?!) approach this with my boss? They are generally a very accommodating company but like all, trying to save money where they can.

Thanks in advance.

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latteandtoastie · 17/06/2023 11:17

titchy · 17/06/2023 11:03

Of course you should talk to them. You have nothing to lose.

However you asked - did you sell yourself short? Hell yes. Why in earth did you accept coming back to the same role, the same workload and responsibilities but only being paid for three days a week? That was your downfall. And I hate to be the one to say it - but you're in HR - surely you of all people should know that it is completely unreasonable to expect someone to do a five day job while being paid for three days?

Come on - if someone junior in the company wanted the same - what would your advice to their line manager be? If 'yes of course it's fine for Sarah to work and be paid for three days a week. No it won't be a problem if we don't reduce her workload, she can just do 14 hours of unpaid overtime each week' - then frankly going back to being a junior is probably a good thing!

I was naive - at the time everyone thought three was workable and in my field, but then the pandemic hit and work levels incresed exponentially.

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mewkins · 17/06/2023 11:21

I would go back, do the role for 6 months and keep as much evidence as possible to demonstrate how you are actually doing a senior HR officer role. If they disagree and still want to pay you for an HR officer role, look for a new job where they appreciate and reward your experience and knowledge appropriately.

swanling · 17/06/2023 11:24

latteandtoastie · 17/06/2023 11:17

I was naive - at the time everyone thought three was workable and in my field, but then the pandemic hit and work levels incresed exponentially.

That doesn't make sense unless you didn't have enough work to do when you were full time.

Is this a really small organisation? Maybe you'd be better looking for a role somewhere bigger.

latteandtoastie · 30/06/2023 20:20

Just an update.

For those who provided helpful comments - thank you.

For those who went down the unhelpful route, I found out today that they have agreed for me to return as the senior.

🤗

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FUPAgirl · 01/07/2023 17:16

Great news, well done!

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