A work one … please read and give opinions
i returned to uni to study nursing mental health - going into my second year fell pregnant so suspended my second year. Whilst of I have toyed with the idea of following a different route to get me where I think I would like to work - within a school helping children like a wellbeing officer.
applied for my second year student finance - was rejected for the childcare element and said I would need to claim via universal credit - they said no student finance should have accepted as your not employed so we wouldn’t do the childcare element - we get a few hundred towards living costs. Then I find out I won’t get awarded my NHS bursary either as uni messed up and forgot (some excuse) to take me of as an active student and was down as attending all second year so the NHS bursary won’t pay me for second year as to them Iv done second year. Uni are useless when it comes to finance stuff - took them 7 months after suspended to declare that.
So basically I have to give up uni because there’s no box for a mum who is at uni unless I use the little maintenance I get which would leave me in the red covering just nursery fees.
sooo I now need a job - what would you do? Continue to follow the original plan or start a new career and fresh, reinvent, etc etc … if you had a do over ?
im conflicted if I should be following my well-being goal or not . I love staying at home with my baby but financially I just can’t.
just need some opinions about if you were in this situation what would you do