So I'm in a bit of a nightmare scenario.
I have been given a provisional job offer for the Civil Service. I put down my current employer as my professional referee. This is the best one I could think of as I was unemployed for a few years before this job, and before that worked abroad. But I checked a box to say I did not consent for them to be contacted, with the reason being I had not given notice at my job yet. (I would have been fine for them to have given a reference after that though.)
They were contacted anyway about a week ago, so now they know I have another job offer. They have said that they won't let me go before I'm ready, but they've asked that I tell my (stressed, understaffed) colleagues about my plans.
The problem is that I don't know if I'll pass my security clearance as I have only lived in the UK for the last 4 years rather than 5 after time abroad (I am a UK citizen). And I have no idea when I'll find out.
So now I am dreading telling my colleagues as all I can say is, 'I might be leaving, but I don't know when, and also maybe not, who knows.'
I don't know what to do and have been lying awake thinking about it! ☹️