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What job can I do with 3 young kids?

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posterroaster · 24/04/2023 20:52

I'm currently on mat leave and before I left work I had a great set up...

  • work from home
  • 4 long days a week (full time, compressed hours)
  • on £38k

But I've heard through work friends we are going to be expected to go into the office 3 days a week. My issue with this is:

  • pick up a drop offs won't work with my compressed hours
  • the commute cost is £35 a day (£105 a week/around £500 per month)
  • the commute time is an hour each way

It feels like a costly and bad use of my time - I'm going to be completely frazzled and not have any work life balance.

With this in mind I think I need to find something new that fits in with having 3 young children.

But what? I did a humanities degree sometime ago now, and don't have any other qualifications. I don't particularly hate my line of work but don't love it either. Ideally wouldn't want to drop in salary.

Any suggestions? I still have 9 months of mat leave to go, so a bit of time to come up with a plan.

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Singleandproud · 24/04/2023 20:59

You want a fully flexi role. Look at government agencies like the DEFRA group (DEFRA, Environment Agency, Natural England etc) lots of roles, general admin, HR, as well as more specialised.

I can work anytime between 7am-7pm providing I get my hours done, start as late as 10am, take up to two hours for lunch between 12-2pm, this flexibility does depend on business need so if you have a 1pm meeting your are expected to attend or to have blocked out your lunch in advance. Accrue 15 days flexi leave on top of normal holiday.

Singleandproud · 24/04/2023 21:01

Oh and some roles are fully remote, others hybrid and some you just touch base face to face once a month depending in role.

Username84 · 24/04/2023 21:19

How old are the kids? You might be able to negotiate flexible working like working from home more if you put in a request.

CandlelightGlow · 25/04/2023 14:42

I would definitely explain your difficulties getting into the office and see if you can get an agile working request Smile

If you've been there a while and previously worked to this set up that will hopefully go in your favour!

PuffinPuffinPenguin · 25/04/2023 14:45

Why don't you look for another job in your field if you've no issues with it? For example, if you're working in marketing, why not find a hybrid/remote job in marketing? You'll be much more likely to get a decent salary with a few years of experience behind you than starting in a new field. Also why is it all down to you? Is your DH also on compressed hours? When I went back to work, my DH had to do the nursery drop offs/pickups because of my commute.

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