I am applying for new jobs and my Head was asked for a reference. He told me today he had written a reference for me but I should know that I had taken 86 days absence in the last two years. I was shocked! After much digging around, I managed to find out that 69 were pregnancy related and 5 were scan dates (of which I only took half days). Is this really right? Should these days be counted when recording it on a reference. I thought pregnancy related days did not count, and certainly scan days I thought did not. He has since agreed to take off the scan days. Does anyone know where I stand on this?
Thanks