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Stepping back in my career

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worble · 04/02/2023 10:18

I have climbed extremely quickly up the career ladder and love my job - leading a team, and responsible for a department. But, I'm finding that with preschool DCs I just don't have the mental capacity and energy for it because I'm tired. I feel I can't give my best to neither my family nor my job, and I want to be more mentally present with my children - not just sit with them totally shattered.

I have the opportunity to move into a no. 2 role in another company. I will be working with a manager I know prioritises work life balance in his team. It would be the best for family life but I feel unsure and also sad to give up the autonomy and leadership I have in my role, and the level I am currently working at. I also worry it may backfire in the long term when I do want to be at the level I'm now at. But there's also potential progression opportunity in the future for me to be no. 1.

Has anyone done this before? Any advice anyone has?

I would be taking a lower salary but that is not an issue for me right now. The alternative is to stay in my current job which I absolutely love but is draining me. If I didn't have children it would be a no brainier, I would stay in my current job.

Thank you.

OP posts:
Whatislove82 · 06/02/2023 08:54

Op you are currently part time

is the new job also part time?

worble · 14/05/2023 11:00

Hello, I thought I would update after all the advice you lovely people gave.

I accepted the role and am so happy. I have a much better work life balance, and am really enjoying the role. I have already had a promotion (while staying as a number 2) and I am getting involved in things that I have always wanted to, never had a chance to, but would be important for me to become a number 1 in a bigger organisation than my previous job. So I feel comfortable that I can demonstrate on my CV that this was a good career move.

I have more energy in the weekends and the evenings and I feel I can enjoy life more.

It could have gone very differently and maybe something will happen in the future which will make me regret the move. But at the moment, things are looking good.

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Zigzagga · 14/05/2023 12:46

Amazing! I'm so happy for you!

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