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New job - fear

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tadpole73 · 10/12/2022 20:26

Does anyone get so nervous about accepting a new job, you don't do it? I have a job offer on the table and the thought of accepting it sends waves of anxiousness over me despite the fact I've always done well in jobs as I'm a worrier so I work hard and am very conscientious. At the moment, I feel paralysed by fear and it's constantly on my mind in case I can't do the job

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Bookridden · 10/12/2022 20:56

Yes, this is me OP. I'm a few days into a new job and I want to work 20 hour days to try to get my head round it all. But family commitments mean I can't.

good96 · 10/12/2022 21:37

The thing to remember is, the person/people who offered you the job clearly has confidence in your ability to do the job. Imposter syndrome isn’t unusual before starting a new job. You don’t know what it’s like until you start. Good Luck.

LadyLolaRuben · 10/12/2022 21:51

Im just like how you describe. I started a new job 6 weeks ago after 14 years in last place. First 3 weeks were strange getting into a new routine. But its fine now.

Whats your alternative OP, staying I your current job forever? Be brave x

nj32 · 11/12/2022 08:11

Yes, I apply and will turn down the interview. Then if I do an interview and get it I find a reason to turn it down. When I don't get it there is an element of relief.

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tadpole73 · 11/12/2022 08:32

Oh thanks for the responses, it's so reassuring there are others feeling and doing the same things.

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LadyLolaRuben · 13/12/2022 19:43

Did you decide to take the job?

CurlyTop1980 · 13/12/2022 20:19

Yes this is me.i worked in my previous job for 9 years and then changesd Local Authority's. The first 3 days of my new job, I cried and cried in the car on the way home.

I've just left my current job after 5 years and I have a new one starting in Jan and I'm absolutely bricking it. Like you I know I'll be fine. But it's the anxiety of the unknown.....

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tadpole73 · 16/12/2022 20:52

Hi LadyLolaReuben I have just had my second interview for both jobs I have applied for. I know I need to make the jump, but I too will be bricking it if an email comes through saying I have one of the jobs.

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LadyLolaRuben · 17/12/2022 00:14

tadpole73 · 16/12/2022 20:52

Hi LadyLolaReuben I have just had my second interview for both jobs I have applied for. I know I need to make the jump, but I too will be bricking it if an email comes through saying I have one of the jobs.

Ahh keep us posted on how you get on. You clearly do well at interviews!

whatisforteamum · 17/12/2022 07:55

Have faith.Ive gone for a fair few jobs in my life and never regretted the change.
My current one has been an odd time but over 35 yrs I've had loads of positive experience s and most colleagues are welcoming.

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