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Got a dilema and not sure what to do........

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FAQ · 30/01/2008 22:52

I need to go back to work by the beginning of march. I've been on maternity leave since last May, was due back on Monday just gone by - but resigned 4 weeks ago. I was working as a Care Assistant doing 3 x 9 1/4hr shifts a week on very crp pay £5.50 (would have risen to £5.70 in September had I not been getting SMP). I hated working there, LOVED the work but the manager treated me like sht. I was the "scapegoat" of the night girls - so if any thing went wrong/any complaints and it was "always" my fault.

I've been looking for something to fit round DH's hours - so morning work, or nights if decent pay. But was really just looking to only have to work enough to bring in just £350 a month (after tax). Hopefully just mornings so I could be at home with the DS's in the afternoon/evening. However, DS1 is already at school, and DS2 starts in September. So in reality it would just be DS3 who I'd be at home with in the early afternoons.

Anyhow, SIL has just moved to neighbouring town to start a new job as a Manager at a new care home. She's in charge of recruitment and called this morning (I was out) to ask if I was interested in any of the posts. (as she apparently put it I've been head hunted ). The most "viable" option in terms of the shifts on offer is the night shift.

It's 10pm-8am working on a 2 week rota. 4 nights on, 3 nights off, 3 nights on 4 nights off. As yet SIL doesn't have details of the wage (although should have got the info by the time I call tomorrow to chat to her about it).

Now the issue is this, I'd need to put DS2 and 3 into childcare (possibly a childminder) on the weekdays after I'd been working the night before, just for about 3hrs after lunch so that I could get decent sleep in - especially given my nights would be all joined together.

I think that I'd just be able to scrape enough money in with my hours to bring home the £350 I need to pay bills/buy food - and pay for childcare (as it wouldn't be every day every week that I'd need it). And in October once DS2 is at school fulltime the childcare costs would drop - thereby giving us more money to "play with" so to speak.

Now possible issues (aside from using "outside" childcare which we'd always hoped to avoid) include the fact that I'd almost certainly have to cycle to and from work (it's about 10/11 miles - used to do a lot of cycling - similar distances and pretty sure I could get back in the short of shape required ). The buses to the job in the evening just don't work (I could leave home to catch the bus in town at 8.20 and arrive at 9pm, or leave at 9.20 and arrive at 10pm). I could (in theory) get the bus home again in the morning (though nothing of taking bikes on buses LOL).

I'd also be working "under" my SIL - though I'm not too bothered about that as we get on really well.

Pro's would be:

Doing work I LOVE doing
Probably more chance of "career progress" (ie not being stuck at the bottom of the care assistants heap, but possibly working up to Senior Carer etc)
Once DS2 starts school it would be more financially viable.

I'll get fit again with all that cycling.

Really not sure what to do........

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Octothechildherder · 30/01/2008 22:55

oooh FAQ good to see stuff is coming up - go for it, see if it works???

fishpie · 30/01/2008 22:59

I would seriously think about it! Seems ok during term time while DC are in school, but what will happen when it comes to the summer holidays etc?

FAQ · 30/01/2008 23:00

holidays we'd just have to make sure we've saved up enough for DS1 to go to a holiday club type thing.......

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FAQ · 30/01/2008 23:01

oh - and DS2 of course too LOL

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FAQ · 30/01/2008 23:03

oh - and don't laugh, I know it was "only" my SIL - but it did feel rather when DH said I was being head-hunted LOL

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discoverlife · 30/01/2008 23:06

That bike ride seems a bit too much at night. How safe are the roads going to be at night?

Will you be back in time (in the morning) to do the school run or that going to be a problem?

How much better off will you actually be when you take childcare and loss of relevent tax credits (due to you working)?

How much time are you giving yourself for housework etc.

FAQ · 30/01/2008 23:10

Roads are fine - it's really quiet. I'd probably do a few "practice" runs in the daytime just so I'm used to the route.

Mornings not a problem - DH doesn't leave for work until lunchtime so he'd do the morning stuff, pick up DS2 from nursery and drop DS2 & 3 off at childminder/whatever childcare I decide on.

Haven't got much TC to lose - only £27 as they over paid us last tax year. And as long as I have the £350 to pay bills (actually once the money from my Granddad's estate comes through in the next 6-8 weeks it'll only be £250 needed) we'll be fine. And once DS2 hits school in September then there will be extra money.

Housework will be split between us. DH will do stuff in the morning, and I'll do stuff when I get up/before I go to work.

I've worked nights before so I'm not too worried about fitting the housework stuff in - I'm cr*p at it anyhow so slacking a bit wouldn't really get noticed

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hopefully · 31/01/2008 09:39

It sounds like a plan with a few drawbacks, but certainly no more drawbacks than any other job, and if you absolutely have to work, I suppose dealing with childcare at some point is inevitable. Suppose the worst that can happen is you start and leave again after a couple of months!

FAQ · 31/01/2008 10:21

well just spoken to my SIL.

Said about my concerns trying to find childcare on "odd" days and she said that if I was successful that fixed nights could be an option.....

15 nights a month at £56.10 per night works out at £841 (£730 after tax). Which would leave me with £380 a month to pay for childcare (which I wouldn't need for every night as it I'm doing Fri/Sat (which I'd probably do twice a month) that would be 4 days less. Obviously if I the money from my Granddad's estate comes through soon then I'd have £480 to pay for 3hrs childcare for 2 children a few days week....Going down to just one child in October.

Need to ring some childminders and see what sort of figures I'm looking at.......and borrow a bike off a friend (not sure who LOL) so I can trial the ride over to where the home is!

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FAQ · 31/01/2008 12:29

you know the more I think about it the more I want it.

It's a brand new home (in terms of building and of residents.....of which there's only 1 at the moment - so it's that new) so I'd be part of the team "setting the standards" so to speak in terms of quality of care. It's for adults with learning disabilities, my old job was working with (mainly) elderly dementia sufferers but I feel more excited and challenged about this job than my old one.

I think we'd qualify for the childcare element of the Tax credits - so that would help too - leaving us with money left over - even if I paid £40 a day one the days I needed childcare!

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cmotdibbler · 31/01/2008 12:37

Sounds great, and afterall, if you found it didn't work out, you don't have to stay.
Join FreeCycle and post a wanted for a bike - never seems to be a problem to get one.

FAQ · 31/01/2008 12:39

ooo - that's an idea! Never thought of free-cycle....

I'd love to get back to my cycling fitness days..........

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